[nekkid]

I'm really embarrassed to ask these questions, but I really need to know. I think TFP is the right place to ask knowing that the readers are older and we have some mother readers too.

Please be open-minded =|

























When my boyfriend fingered me, I realized I do not have any feelings down there. IS THAT NORMAL? I'm a virgin so I never had intercourse before. If I can't feel it when something is inside me, will I be able to feel anything during intercourse? It's making me nervous because I don't think I'm normal.

I have heard that the g-spot is not too deep inside the vagina. I would think his finger would have reached the "spot", unless this information is wrong. How far is the "spot"?

I have once read in the magazine that if a girl is not physically or emotionally ready for sexual activity, she will not be able to feel it. I don't think this is the problem for me because I feel completely comfortable and ready with my boyfriend of 5 years.

Overall, I'm just really confused because I don't know if this is normal or not....

I want to search for more information on the Internet, but I don't know where to start.

Has anyone here encountered the same problem?

[Jahpson]

you probably needed a boost. like stimulation of the "happy bump"

PM me if you dont know what that means.




Stay in School kids, knowledge is power

[AAA07]

Well also it sounds like you may be having a psychological block. Relax. You may have to go solo...

[ArmCandyLuvr]

I don't think there is anything wrong with you. Most of the nerve endings in a womans' vagina or in the outer third of the vagina. Many women don't feel much from deep penetration. Very few women can orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone. The vast majority of women require clitoral stimulation. A woman's external genitalia and clitoris are much more sensitive.
However, I agree that you should try to relax and go with the flow. It's hard to enjoy yourself when you're worrying with what you are or are not feeling.
I also agree with the suggestion that you should try masturbation if you haven't already. Just relax and explore. Find out what makes you feel good. If you know what feels good, you can tell your partner.

[illinirdhd]

You might check out http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/. They used to have some pretty good Q&A about sex issues.

[amanda]

is he a virgin too? if he is, he may be inexperienced in exactly WHERE he should be touching you - some parts of the vagina are super sensitive, some parts have barely any nerve endings. if all he's doing is putting one finger inside of you, you probably won't feel much of anything. sex is an entirely different story.

this is kind of a graphic question, but does he know where your clitoris is?

[azhangie]

Originally Posted by JahpsonLoveYou

you probably needed a boost. like stimulation of the "happy bump"

PM me if you dont know what that means.




Stay in School kids, knowledge is power

hahaha...omg I was laughing sooo hard.

Have you used a tampon before? If you can feel that then dont worry.

[nekkid]

Originally Posted by JahpsonLoveYou

Stay in School kids, knowledge is power

I hope you didn't mean that towards me because I'm an adult and I'm attending CSULB.

amanda: Yes, he is a virgin. I tried to tell him where to locate my clitoris, but it seems as though he's not touching it the right way. I feel it when I touch it myself though. Maybe I'm not entirely comfortable as I think I am.

azhangie: I never used a tampon before.


Even when I try to relax myself, I still don't feel anything. I think I just think too much.



thanks to everyone who replied!

[azhangie]

O..hmm. Well if you can feel it urself then maybe you're just too nervous with ur bf and all you can focus on is being nervous. I dont think theres anything wrong tho...just relax!! Help him out a little? You know ur body best!

[Prada's Meadow]

Nekkid This subject matter is not suitable for the purse forum. Please feel free to continue via PM.

Interesting user name by the way.