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Vintage Leather · Oct 11th, 2009, 09:44 PM

Don't be afraid to let it go. And - make sure you are ready to let it go.

No matter who gave it to you, no matter how much you loved it - if it doesn't fit with your needs, it's time to release it back.

Never give up your: First bag (I don't care if it is a pink vinyl barbie bag), Favorite bag (even if it's almost dead), and always have at least one evening bag (even if your last event was you HS prom - the minute you give it up, you'll have to attend a cocktail party)

You will never have enough until you have the right bags.

bcbgurl19 · Oct 11th, 2009, 11:52 PM

1. I've learned that I love leather.

2. I love color.

3. I have no brand loyalty, if I see a bag I like I get it.

4. I feel naked without a nice handbag.

5. I subconsciously purse watch when I go out in public.

6. I now think $2000 is a reasonably priced forever bag.

7. My HG bag may be completely different from someone else's, and that's okay.

imlvholic · Oct 12th, 2009, 01:02 AM

When I started TPF, I've learned that there's more beautiful bags than LVs, though I only kept Classic Speedys & sold the rest.

I've also learned that it's OK to spend over $1K on bags & not feel guilty about it, at the same time treasure them more.

I've also learned that higher end bags are more of an investment, so when you're tired of it, in case of emergency or you need to buy another bag, you don't have to break the bank, you can resell & recycle.

I've also learned that I'm not alone in this addiction.

imlvholic · Oct 12th, 2009, 01:04 AM

When I started TPF, I've learned that there's more beautiful bags than LVs, though I only kept & still love my Classic Speedys but sold the rest.

I've also learned that it's OK to spend over $1K on bags & not feel guilty about it, at the same time treasure them more.

I've also learned that higher end bags are more of an investment, so when you're tired of it, in case of emergency or you need to buy another bag, you don't have to break the bank, you can resell & recycle.

I've also learned that I'm not alone in this addiction.

Cheetah7 · Oct 12th, 2009, 01:13 AM

I learned to buy purses that are practical, convenient and something I would actually use almost everyday, not buy something that would just sit in the closet, gathering dust. I used to just impulse buy and purchased whatever caught my fancy but they were mostly non designer brands that I got on sale. I would wear them once or twice and they would never see the light of day again

. If only I had saved all that money towards a worthy purchase then that money would've been put to better use.

bagladyseattle · Oct 12th, 2009, 01:27 AM

This is what I've learned:

1. If you buy the "IT" bag, then there will be another "IT" bag. It's never stop. I've bought 3 bags over the last 2 months. Now still have an urge to get two more.

2. Shop bargain rather than full retail price.

3. I cannot control my impulsive purchases.

4. I learn to let go of bags that just sit my closet to fund another bag that I love.

5. I cannot stay on "banned" more than 2 months.

6. I am sick and have obsession w/ handbags/shoes/jelwery.

purses and gold · Oct 12th, 2009, 04:53 PM

I've learned that:
1. You never get over being a purse-a-holic
2. Impulse buying is a waste of money
3. Don't buy a bag just because someone else raves about it

alatrop · Oct 12th, 2009, 07:33 PM

1. I won't settle for anything other than leather (except for accessories).

2. I need bags that have zippers/closures (no open tops), are durable, and are lightweight.

3. No use in collecting mass amounts of accessories. I have a few that I like, I would rather spend my money on a new bag. My ONE (yes, one!) wallet works just fine.

4. I won't buy something just because it's on sale. If I wouldn't pay full price for it, I won't buy it.

ChaChaWeed · Oct 13th, 2009, 01:34 PM

Originally Posted by purses and gold

I've learned that:
1. You never get over being a purse-a-holic
2. Impulse buying is a waste of money
3. Don't buy a bag just because someone else raves about it

ACK! Is this true?

I'm learning that there is no end in sight.

I wish I were a minimalist. (Really really wish...) or at least (like a previous posters said) "French" and could wear something to death.

I am seriously fickle. And I can go to extreme lengths to justify a new bag.

bonny_montana · Oct 13th, 2009, 02:12 PM

I have learnt since my bag addiction..,
that I am a serious addict!!!
that I love handbags and all things fashion related
that i am glad I never bought a handbag as an "investment" Cos they are not.
that I always paid cash for my bags
And finally every bag I buy, I buy 'cos I love them, not because they are IT bags and therefore i do not sell my bags, no matter how old they are.
And since joining TPF in may 2009 I have learnt a wealth of information, great, amazing helpful information about my addiction.
And about how different we all are in regards to preference, our tastes and our thinking.

chikapinku · Oct 13th, 2009, 05:47 PM

That there are too many women out there that don't appreciate the wonders of a beautiful handbag.

That, luckily, there are places like this full of women that do!

That I am okay with buying handbags and selling them at a loss occasionally as long as I learn from what made that handbag a mistake.

That I don't feel right unless I'm carrying around a bag I consider to be gorgeous.

That I need to sit on handbag impulses for at least a month before I buy otherwise I end up with something I'll likely go off later. If I still want it after then, then I will go out and buy it and not regret it.

^ That I didn't do that enough prior and as a result have bought and sold too many bags to list!

Compass Rose · Oct 14th, 2009, 09:38 AM

That quality is not represented at all by the price of the bag.

Jahpson · Oct 14th, 2009, 10:26 AM

Originally Posted by bcbgurl19

1. I've learned that I love leather.

2. I love color.

3. I have no brand loyalty, if I see a bag I like I get it.

4. I feel naked without a nice handbag.

5. I subconsciously purse watch when I go out in public.

6. I now think $2000 is a reasonably priced forever bag.

7. My HG bag may be completely different from someone else's, and that's okay.

also classics are more fun then trendy

Loquita · Oct 14th, 2009, 02:33 PM

I will borrow points 1-4 here from bcbgurl19, who put it so well:

1. I've learned that I love leather.

2. I love color.

3. I feel naked without a nice handbag.

4. I subconsciously purse watch when I go out in public.

I'd also add:

5. No need to pay retail.

6. Details matter.

7. If you don't wear it and absolutely love it, sell/donate/gift it.

8. A well-edited, thoroughly loved collection is a goal worth striving for, every time.

Southern-Belle · Oct 14th, 2009, 02:57 PM

1. Come to tpf to conduct research before you buy
2. Say no to impulse purchases
3. The quality of the leather, the hardware, and the shape is everything
4. Buy what you absolutely love, not what's supposedly "in"
5. If you love a style get it in more than one color
6. Stay open to new designers
7. The only person who needs to love or like your bag is you

Oct 11th, 2009, 09:44 PM	#76
Vintage Leather Bag Lady Joined: Jan 2007 Location: US Posts: 2,507	Don't be afraid to let it go. And - make sure you are ready to let it go. No matter who gave it to you, no matter how much you loved it - if it doesn't fit with your needs, it's time to release it back. Never give up your: First bag (I don't care if it is a pink vinyl barbie bag), Favorite bag (even if it's almost dead), and always have at least one evening bag (even if your last event was you HS prom - the minute you give it up, you'll have to attend a cocktail party) You will never have enough until you have the right bags.
	__________________ “Fashion anticipates, and elegance is a state of mind ... a mirror of the time in which we live, a translation of the future, and should never be static.” Banned until I buy my first house!

Oct 11th, 2009, 11:52 PM	#77
bcbgurl19 What Sale??? Joined: Jun 2006 Location: In my closet... Posts: 785	1. I've learned that I love leather. 2. I love color. 3. I have no brand loyalty, if I see a bag I like I get it. 4. I feel naked without a nice handbag. 5. I subconsciously purse watch when I go out in public. 6. I now think $2000 is a reasonably priced forever bag. 7. My HG bag may be completely different from someone else's, and that's okay.
	__________________ Please text "HAITI" to 90999 to donate $10 to American Red Cross relief for Haiti.

Oct 12th, 2009, 01:02 AM	#78
imlvholic Balenciaga Convert Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,849	When I started TPF, I've learned that there's more beautiful bags than LVs, though I only kept Classic Speedys & sold the rest. I've also learned that it's OK to spend over $1K on bags & not feel guilty about it, at the same time treasure them more. I've also learned that higher end bags are more of an investment, so when you're tired of it, in case of emergency or you need to buy another bag, you don't have to break the bank, you can resell & recycle. I've also learned that I'm not alone in this addiction.
	__________________ My Babies: 07 Black City GGH 07 Black Money Wallet GGH 08 EB Work SGH 08 Marine PT SGH 08 Amethyst CGH City 08 Ruby GGH City 09 Lilac City 09 Galet SGH City Hermes Black Evelyne Chanel Black Lamb Flap JUMBO, KELLY & Mini LV Speedys: DAMIER 30, BLK EPI 30, MONO 35, AZUR 30 AW ROCCO Blk/brass Mini

Oct 12th, 2009, 01:04 AM	#79
imlvholic Balenciaga Convert Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,849	When I started TPF, I've learned that there's more beautiful bags than LVs, though I only kept & still love my Classic Speedys but sold the rest. I've also learned that it's OK to spend over $1K on bags & not feel guilty about it, at the same time treasure them more. I've also learned that higher end bags are more of an investment, so when you're tired of it, in case of emergency or you need to buy another bag, you don't have to break the bank, you can resell & recycle. I've also learned that I'm not alone in this addiction.
	__________________ My Babies: 07 Black City GGH 07 Black Money Wallet GGH 08 EB Work SGH 08 Marine PT SGH 08 Amethyst CGH City 08 Ruby GGH City 09 Lilac City 09 Galet SGH City Hermes Black Evelyne Chanel Black Lamb Flap JUMBO, KELLY & Mini LV Speedys: DAMIER 30, BLK EPI 30, MONO 35, AZUR 30 AW ROCCO Blk/brass Mini

Oct 12th, 2009, 01:13 AM	#80
Cheetah7 Member Joined: Aug 2009 Location: Here, there and everywhere Posts: 302	I learned to buy purses that are practical, convenient and something I would actually use almost everyday, not buy something that would just sit in the closet, gathering dust. I used to just impulse buy and purchased whatever caught my fancy but they were mostly non designer brands that I got on sale. I would wear them once or twice and they would never see the light of day again. If only I had saved all that money towards a worthy purchase then that money would've been put to better use.
	__________________

Oct 12th, 2009, 01:27 AM	#81
bagladyseattle Member Joined: Sep 2007 Location: Seattle, WA Posts: 882	This is what I've learned: 1. If you buy the "IT" bag, then there will be another "IT" bag. It's never stop. I've bought 3 bags over the last 2 months. Now still have an urge to get two more. 2. Shop bargain rather than full retail price. 3. I cannot control my impulsive purchases. 4. I learn to let go of bags that just sit my closet to fund another bag that I love. 5. I cannot stay on "banned" more than 2 months. 6. I am sick and have obsession w/ handbags/shoes/jelwery.
	__________________ http://forum.purseblog.com/your-bag-...on-367355.html

Oct 12th, 2009, 04:53 PM	#82
purses and gold Purse Lover Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 273	I've learned that: 1. You never get over being a purse-a-holic 2. Impulse buying is a waste of money 3. Don't buy a bag just because someone else raves about it
purses and gold Purse Lover Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 273	__________________ Shop on!

Oct 12th, 2009, 07:33 PM	#83
alatrop future Mrs! Joined: May 2006 Location: Rocket Country Posts: 2,658	1. I won't settle for anything other than leather (except for accessories). 2. I need bags that have zippers/closures (no open tops), are durable, and are lightweight. 3. No use in collecting mass amounts of accessories. I have a few that I like, I would rather spend my money on a new bag. My ONE (yes, one!) wallet works just fine. 4. I won't buy something just because it's on sale. If I wouldn't pay full price for it, I won't buy it.
	__________________ Last new bag: November 2009 I'd rather be at a baseball game!

Oct 13th, 2009, 02:12 PM	#85
bonny_montana LOVE BELLE Joined: May 2009 Location: london. U.K Posts: 2,140	I have learnt since my bag addiction.., that I am a serious addict!!! that I love handbags and all things fashion related that i am glad I never bought a handbag as an "investment" Cos they are not. that I always paid cash for my bags And finally every bag I buy, I buy 'cos I love them, not because they are IT bags and therefore i do not sell my bags, no matter how old they are. And since joining TPF in may 2009 I have learnt a wealth of information, great, amazing helpful information about my addiction. And about how different we all are in regards to preference, our tastes and our thinking.
	Last edited by bonny_montana; Oct 13th, 2009 at 02:15 PM.

Oct 13th, 2009, 05:47 PM	#86
chikapinku Gamer bag chick Joined: Aug 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 485	That there are too many women out there that don't appreciate the wonders of a beautiful handbag. That, luckily, there are places like this full of women that do! That I am okay with buying handbags and selling them at a loss occasionally as long as I learn from what made that handbag a mistake. That I don't feel right unless I'm carrying around a bag I consider to be gorgeous. That I need to sit on handbag impulses for at least a month before I buy otherwise I end up with something I'll likely go off later. If I still want it after then, then I will go out and buy it and not regret it. ^ That I didn't do that enough prior and as a result have bought and sold too many bags to list!
	__________________ BAG BANNED! ... Until February the 4th... one step at a time! Waiting on: Hayden Harnett Havana: Brandy ... if HH ever feel like sending it!

Oct 14th, 2009, 09:38 AM	#87
Compass Rose Opie, My Schmopie!! Joined: Jul 2006 Location: Southwest Florida Posts: 9,247	That quality is not represented at all by the price of the bag.
	__________________ Teddie says......"They'll never find me in here"! My jewelry creations at: www.greenfeatherdesigns.com

Oct 14th, 2009, 02:33 PM	#89
Loquita Old Skool Chloe Joined: May 2008 Location: MAss/Hysteria Posts: 14,501	I will borrow points 1-4 here from bcbgurl19, who put it so well: 1. I've learned that I love leather. 2. I love color. 3. I feel naked without a nice handbag. 4. I subconsciously purse watch when I go out in public. I'd also add: 5. No need to pay retail. 6. Details matter. 7. If you don't wear it and absolutely love it, sell/donate/gift it. 8. A well-edited, thoroughly loved collection is a goal worth striving for, every time.
	__________________ I'm working towards the following bags: Chloe Medium Paraty - rock? brick red? poppy? Balenciaga Besace RH - black, any year Balenciaga Day RH - tomato 07 or sang 09 ...as I mightily attempt to ignore several others.

Oct 14th, 2009, 02:57 PM	#90
Southern-Belle Member Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,045	1. Come to tpf to conduct research before you buy 2. Say no to impulse purchases 3. The quality of the leather, the hardware, and the shape is everything 4. Buy what you absolutely love, not what's supposedly "in" 5. If you love a style get it in more than one color 6. Stay open to new designers 7. The only person who needs to love or like your bag is you
Southern-Belle Member Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,045	__________________ Ready to go shopping with Mommy...

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