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mockinglee · Nov 15th, 2007, 05:42 PM

I've learned that I have no will power.

stephluvspurses · Nov 15th, 2007, 06:13 PM

i think that i've learned that i really am addicted/obsessed/infatuated with bags. and i've learned that i'm not alone!

i love you guys!

MissTiss · Nov 15th, 2007, 06:23 PM

I've learned that:

I can find "the perfect bag for now", but never "the perfect bag".

I can't do the different bag everyday thing. I switch about once a monthish.

I can't stand to change wallets.

My bag addiction was evident even before I was ever aware of it. I has so many backpacks in high school, I could have opened a store. Jansport ruled!

I can't pass up a good deal on a tote. Any tote, any color. Target it the bane of my existence for that reason. A new tote every trip, every time!

I have to stare at everyones bag wherever I go.

Leather is the best smell in the world.

I prefer silver hardware as a rule, but do own some gold.

I really, really love my bags.

My friends don't understand, but you guys do. I love that!

conniec.4 · Nov 15th, 2007, 07:49 PM

judy, thats exactly what i have done also;i just recently gave away to my sis in law a ton of bags...i had to really figure out what my style was personally, not what looks good on paper or on someone else...that took a long time and many, many bags. i too, have bought and returned soooo many bags its ridiculous...i think too that as your life evolves and changes so does your wants and needs in a bag...my kids are older so i have no use for huge bags for everyday use...i just dont carry that much...if i need to bring more with me, i have a few large bags that i throw everything in, including my everyday bag, which is a small lv minna street bag or one of my other small bags. i wear them mostly cross body and could never have anything that doesnt have a long strap. i could never do an arm bag either, as gorgeous as they always look...i think you have to wear whats comfortable and practical for your life...

niseixtenshi · Nov 15th, 2007, 09:09 PM

I have learned...not to come on purse forum unless I'm ready to fork some money on a new bag!

kellykapoor · Nov 16th, 2007, 02:16 AM

Originally Posted by KatsBags

I've learned that my husband is wonderfully supportive and very indulgent especially when I talk details of handbags.

LOL Same here.

snoopylaughs · Nov 16th, 2007, 03:16 AM

1. Definitely that a bag will go on sale, just like clothes do. If you know it won't, there are plenty of other places to get that bag if you're patient and knowledgable! Patience is key! The money you didn't spend on buying it at retail price, can go to something else!

I still have trouble talking myself out of sale purses, but ever since August, I've pretty much felt like I'm done and waved off any other bag that comes into sight. Without the help of tPF, I would have never thought of consignment shops online, and through that I got a scrumptious Prada Pushlock in black (goatskin? lambskin?) leather with gorgeous gold hardware that is different from the recent pushlocks. To boot, I have not seen any other pushlock as unique, though I'm sure there's another floating somewhere in the world.

2. I haven't been itching since then, but I when I spot another purse, I think about it for a bit, and realize why pay $$$ when I got the pushlock for only 670? If I see a bag for less than 700, I compare it to the pushlock and I know it's just not the same. Anything over 700, same result. This pushlock is my benchmark. Thank goodness.

A cheaper purse can give me satisfaction, but it won't match the delight I feel from just looking or carrying the pushlock that came from Switzerland!

3. Learning the difference between the quality of materials in different bags, mainly differences in leather. Paying for any amount of canvas, nylon, or faux-leather bags, just doesn't add up to one genuine leather bag (but Mat & Nat purses, are genius) If the body is not made of leather, forget it, the money for a canvas or nylon purse can continue go to groceries and gas instead.

4. Trendy bags and it bags are not for me. I can oogle them, but they are not for me.
5. Make the purchase count, definitely ditto to the gal that said quality over quantity. Get something you absolutely love, don't get something just because you can afford it.

JudieH · Nov 16th, 2007, 08:10 AM

Originally Posted by niseixtenshi

I have learned...not to come on purse forum unless I'm ready to fork some money on a new bag!

So, so true!!!!!

Cat_uk · Nov 16th, 2007, 09:40 AM

That I have expensive taste

and how to stop a fake at fifty paces (even training husbad to do the same!)

TropicalGal · Nov 16th, 2007, 10:11 AM

I have learned I do have my limit. I thought I would be insatiable, and that was scary. But no, I do have a limit and that feels good. I keep editing down my collection, and now I'm using all my bags and loving them. Whenever I buy a new one, I let one go. I give my bags to my friends. They cherish and use them. I have learned my bag personality -- and that has taken almost a lifetime! I have learned I am not alone in this love of handbags.

poptarts · Nov 16th, 2007, 10:49 AM

The only thing I learned from my bag addiction is that I've got to make more money. haha

flyvetjo · Nov 16th, 2007, 01:01 PM

That I need to win the lottery or get a better paid job!!

Babyjlo · Nov 16th, 2007, 02:35 PM

I've learnt to look for promotional codes rather than wait for a sale, sometimes you really do miss out...

jbelle · Nov 18th, 2007, 04:11 PM

I love this! Here's what I've learned:

1) It pays to be picky. Limited Edition bags are not THAT hard to get, and so not worth having an anxiety attack over.

2) Classic bags are worth the money. The fewer bells and whistles, the more clothing they'll match.

3) Trendy bags are fun if the prices are 'fun' too.

4) Typical markup on a designer bag is 30%, so a good 'deal' is at least 30% OFF.

5) Know your style and only buy what fits into it. I loved the MJ Sweet Punk line - unfortunately, I'm more sweet than punk, and it looked ridiculous on me.

6) Control the bag obsession by being 'French' about it - find one bag you absolutely adore, and wear it to DEATH. Replace only when it's on it's last legs.

7) Create bag karma - give away a bag you used to love to your mom, and your aunt/cousin/sis might discover something in her closet to give away too.

8) If prices are reaching those of diamonds, consider the diamonds. They'll last longer.

9) Give your leather the best care you can - clean, condition, and protect diligently, and it'll go the distance!

10) The purse forum is naughty. But in a good way.

JudieH · Nov 18th, 2007, 04:17 PM

Someone must have already said this. Another thing I have learned is that there is always another bag I "must" have. I don't know if that is

or

Nov 15th, 2007, 05:42 PM	#46
mockinglee BOYY am I banned Joined: May 2007 Location: Between then and there Posts: 5,202	Re: What have you learned through your handbag addiction? I've learned that I have no will power.

Nov 15th, 2007, 06:13 PM	#47
stephluvspurses i love me some bags! Joined: Aug 2007 Location: los angeles... Posts: 36	Re: What have you learned through your handbag addiction? i think that i've learned that i really am addicted/obsessed/infatuated with bags. and i've learned that i'm not alone! i love you guys!

Nov 15th, 2007, 06:23 PM	#48
MissTiss MACoholic Joined: Mar 2007 Location: The Beauty Bar - Where Else? Posts: 4,642	Re: What have you learned through your handbag addiction? I've learned that: I can find "the perfect bag for now", but never "the perfect bag". I can't do the different bag everyday thing. I switch about once a monthish. I can't stand to change wallets. My bag addiction was evident even before I was ever aware of it. I has so many backpacks in high school, I could have opened a store. Jansport ruled! I can't pass up a good deal on a tote. Any tote, any color. Target it the bane of my existence for that reason. A new tote every trip, every time! I have to stare at everyones bag wherever I go. Leather is the best smell in the world. I prefer silver hardware as a rule, but do own some gold. I really, really love my bags. My friends don't understand, but you guys do. I love that!
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Nov 15th, 2007, 07:49 PM	#49
conniec.4 Member Joined: May 2007 Location: pittsburgh Posts: 267	Re: What have you learned through your handbag addiction? judy, thats exactly what i have done also;i just recently gave away to my sis in law a ton of bags...i had to really figure out what my style was personally, not what looks good on paper or on someone else...that took a long time and many, many bags. i too, have bought and returned soooo many bags its ridiculous...i think too that as your life evolves and changes so does your wants and needs in a bag...my kids are older so i have no use for huge bags for everyday use...i just dont carry that much...if i need to bring more with me, i have a few large bags that i throw everything in, including my everyday bag, which is a small lv minna street bag or one of my other small bags. i wear them mostly cross body and could never have anything that doesnt have a long strap. i could never do an arm bag either, as gorgeous as they always look...i think you have to wear whats comfortable and practical for your life...

Nov 15th, 2007, 09:09 PM	#50
niseixtenshi Member Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 464	Re: What have you learned through your handbag addiction? I have learned...not to come on purse forum unless I'm ready to fork some money on a new bag!
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Nov 16th, 2007, 03:16 AM	#52
snoopylaughs Member Joined: Mar 2007 Location: Austin Posts: 1,286	Re: What have you learned through your handbag addiction? 1. Definitely that a bag will go on sale, just like clothes do. If you know it won't, there are plenty of other places to get that bag if you're patient and knowledgable! Patience is key! The money you didn't spend on buying it at retail price, can go to something else! I still have trouble talking myself out of sale purses, but ever since August, I've pretty much felt like I'm done and waved off any other bag that comes into sight. Without the help of tPF, I would have never thought of consignment shops online, and through that I got a scrumptious Prada Pushlock in black (goatskin? lambskin?) leather with gorgeous gold hardware that is different from the recent pushlocks. To boot, I have not seen any other pushlock as unique, though I'm sure there's another floating somewhere in the world. 2. I haven't been itching since then, but I when I spot another purse, I think about it for a bit, and realize why pay $$$ when I got the pushlock for only 670? If I see a bag for less than 700, I compare it to the pushlock and I know it's just not the same. Anything over 700, same result. This pushlock is my benchmark. Thank goodness. A cheaper purse can give me satisfaction, but it won't match the delight I feel from just looking or carrying the pushlock that came from Switzerland! 3. Learning the difference between the quality of materials in different bags, mainly differences in leather. Paying for any amount of canvas, nylon, or faux-leather bags, just doesn't add up to one genuine leather bag (but Mat & Nat purses, are genius) If the body is not made of leather, forget it, the money for a canvas or nylon purse can continue go to groceries and gas instead. 4. Trendy bags and it bags are not for me. I can oogle them, but they are not for me. 5. Make the purchase count, definitely ditto to the gal that said quality over quantity. Get something you absolutely love, don't get something just because you can afford it.
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Nov 16th, 2007, 09:40 AM	#54
Cat_uk Member Joined: Apr 2007 Location: Uk Posts: 1,548	Re: What have you learned through your handbag addiction? That I have expensive taste and how to stop a fake at fifty paces (even training husbad to do the same!)

Nov 16th, 2007, 10:11 AM	#55
TropicalGal Member Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 5,064	Re: What have you learned through your handbag addiction? I have learned I do have my limit. I thought I would be insatiable, and that was scary. But no, I do have a limit and that feels good. I keep editing down my collection, and now I'm using all my bags and loving them. Whenever I buy a new one, I let one go. I give my bags to my friends. They cherish and use them. I have learned my bag personality -- and that has taken almost a lifetime! I have learned I am not alone in this love of handbags.
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Nov 16th, 2007, 10:49 AM	#56
poptarts Member Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 782	Re: What have you learned through your handbag addiction? The only thing I learned from my bag addiction is that I've got to make more money. haha
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Nov 16th, 2007, 01:01 PM	#57
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Nov 16th, 2007, 02:35 PM	#58
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Nov 18th, 2007, 04:11 PM	#59
jbelle Member Joined: Feb 2006 Posts: 986	Re: What have you learned through your handbag addiction? I love this! Here's what I've learned: 1) It pays to be picky. Limited Edition bags are not THAT hard to get, and so not worth having an anxiety attack over. 2) Classic bags are worth the money. The fewer bells and whistles, the more clothing they'll match. 3) Trendy bags are fun if the prices are 'fun' too. 4) Typical markup on a designer bag is 30%, so a good 'deal' is at least 30% OFF. 5) Know your style and only buy what fits into it. I loved the MJ Sweet Punk line - unfortunately, I'm more sweet than punk, and it looked ridiculous on me. 6) Control the bag obsession by being 'French' about it - find one bag you absolutely adore, and wear it to DEATH. Replace only when it's on it's last legs. 7) Create bag karma - give away a bag you used to love to your mom, and your aunt/cousin/sis might discover something in her closet to give away too. 8) If prices are reaching those of diamonds, consider the diamonds. They'll last longer. 9) Give your leather the best care you can - clean, condition, and protect diligently, and it'll go the distance! 10) The purse forum is naughty. But in a good way.
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Nov 18th, 2007, 04:17 PM	#60
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