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Jun 18, 2012, 9:41am   #1486
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Originally Posted by CoachCruiser View Post
I've been buying a lot of bags lately...a small one from Valentino, an awesome clutch from Prada, a pouchette from Dior...I need to stop. NOW!

Yes dear! Welcome to the club! But the way you described them, wow, they sound amazing!
Jun 18, 2012, 9:44am   #1487
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Originally Posted by bry_dee View Post
^ Yes dear! Welcome to the club! But the way you described them, wow, they sound amazing!
Thank you! Yeah, they are pretty awesome, for my final purchases... But I need to save so I can move out of my apt, so that's a pretty good initiative...I hope I can last...there's a Valentino bag going to 60% off soon that I really want...oh, dear...
Jun 18, 2012, 9:45am   #1488
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Originally Posted by CoachCruiser View Post
Thank you! Yeah, they are pretty awesome, for my final purchases... But I need to save so I can move out of my apt, so that's a pretty good initiative...I hope I can last...there's a Valentino bag going to 60% off soon that I really want...oh, dear...
Hahaha that exact feeling is familiar, the I-cannot-not-have-it feeling but you can do it! I think there should be a payoff mechanism for it of some sort... but not a fashion purchase, like something thoughtfullu spent with a loved one. Hmmm... I should tell myself that too.
Jun 18, 2012, 9:59am   #1489
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Originally Posted by bry_dee View Post
Hahaha that exact feeling is familiar, the I-cannot-not-have-it feeling but you can do it! I think there should be a payoff mechanism for it of some sort... but not a fashion purchase, like something thoughtfullu spent with a loved one. Hmmm... I should tell myself that too.
Maybe a trip somewhere!?! I love to travel and would probably have been able to go on at least three vacations with the money I've spent on bags in the last two years..Oh well...thank you for the support!!
Jun 18, 2012, 10:01am   #1490
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Originally Posted by CoachCruiser View Post
Maybe a trip somewhere!?! I love to travel and would probably have been able to go on at least three vacations with the money I've spent on bags in the last two years..Oh well...thank you for the support!!
Yes exactly! I've been calming myself and doing quick mental calculation of what my purchases can cover when my SO and I go back to Seoul for our trip in Decemebr. It puts things into perspective! Good luck to us and this ban!
Jun 18, 2012, 10:03am   #1491
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Originally Posted by bry_dee View Post
Yes exactly! I've been calming myself and doing quick mental calculation of what my purchases can cover when my SO and I go back to Seoul for our trip in Decemebr. It puts things into perspective! Good luck to us and this ban!
Yes! Good luck to us! Thank you again!
Jun 18, 2012, 4:06pm   #1492
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I'm on a ban. Almost.

I just want one more bag and that will be it until my birthday (in November). It's going to be hard, but I have to do it. I bought 5 bags and 1 wristlet in ONE day last week. Plus, 2 bags from TJ Maxx.

I realize that's overboard for me and it kind of scared me. That's why I set my goal of this last bag till November.
Jun 19, 2012, 10:39am   #1493
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Originally Posted by nicole75 View Post
I'm on a ban. Almost.

I just want one more bag and that will be it until my birthday (in November). It's going to be hard, but I have to do it. I bought 5 bags and 1 wristlet in ONE day last week. Plus, 2 bags from TJ Maxx.

I realize that's overboard for me and it kind of scared me. That's why I set my goal of this last bag till November.
Binges are terrifying!
Jun 20, 2012, 11:00am   #1494
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I'm going to start small by not buying another wallet. I really don't need another. I'm also craving a bag and just received some leather swatches but I'm going to hold it off. Hang in there with me please.
Jun 22, 2012, 3:48am   #1495
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Wow it has been almost two years since I posted in this thread. I think when I last posted in 2010 (literally days before my first baby was born) I had two bags on the way, one of which I just counted as a 2011 purchase because it took so long to get here and then I had to deal with HH on a partial refund issue that I just let the bag sit unused. I got another bag around Christmas last year and my husband just got a job so I am treating myself to a treesje magnolia before I become a stay at home mom again. But I think an average of 1-2 new bags per year works well for me.

Staying away from tpf did help for a while especially breaking the buying cycle initially but I can't say I've been all that good, I'm still addicted to buying stuff! Mostly things for the baby/toddler and things like nail polish but still too much stuff. We are moving now because of DH's job and feel like the people from hoarders, really embarrassing too when people are coming over to look at things.

One nice thing though is that I haven't really been tempted by new bags since coming back to tpf. people are still talking about bags that were out when I first joined which is great because I can appreciate what I have. When DH wanted to treat me to a new bag I had a hard time choosing a new style and ended up picking the magnolia because I had wanted one (or an Asher) before but had bought so much I didn't deserve one.

I've given away all my non-designer bags now so at least things store neatly
Jun 23, 2012, 12:13pm   #1496
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Originally Posted by rabbits View Post
I'm going to start small by not buying another wallet. I really don't need another. I'm also craving a bag and just received some leather swatches but I'm going to hold it off. Hang in there with me please.
Hanging in there with you.
Jun 24, 2012, 11:41pm   #1497
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Originally Posted by Glitter_pixie View Post
Hanging in there with you.
I've refined my ban plan (haha) I'm going to channel my pennies and hopes & dreams to a big one. Hope I don't crash and end up with random "filler" purchases!
Jun 25, 2012, 7:12am   #1498
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I went over 2 years without purchasing a bag until January of this year when I got my Le Pliage. That was my last bag purchase, and I am still 100% content and not looking for anything else.

I noticed that once you get over a hump of a few months, it becomes easier and easier to NOT buy! It is really difficult at first, and every now and then I start to wonder but overall I am satisfied.
Jun 25, 2012, 8:45am   #1499
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Nice confusionmonkey and alatrop! Before typing this reply, I'm browsing on Ebay then went back to this thread to remind myself to work on what I currently have. Good reminder, this thread. And may the force always with us!
Jun 26, 2012, 8:47pm   #1500
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You have such a great collection of classics bry_dee!
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