Well let's see...as of yet, I'm still waiting for a payment for a $3.99 magazine..the buyer said she'd send her check on the 24th and I've gotten no payment or response to the emails/payment reminders I've sent. I have a NPB alert open on her now.
A few months ago, I had some girl bid on a top I was selling..she said she'd send me her $8.99 money order and I never got it. Opened an NPB alert on her and eventually got my final value fee credit.
And this was just something I thought was stupid; one one holiday weekend, this lady won a lot of 3 striped tops I was selling and had emailed me at the end asking me to wait until she got paid that Friday before she sent payment. So I agreed and she paid me on Sunday. Of course, Monday was a holiday..so that Wednesday, I get an email from her, basically threatening me because she hadn't gotten her tops yet!! I tried to CALMLY explain that Monday had been a holiday so I'd mailed on Tuesday...then she emails back and says "well you should have mailed them out before you went on vacation!!!!"
I again tried to CALMLY tell her that no, I had not gone on vacation and there was NO mail delivery that Monday, which was beyond my control. Plus, I'd been nice enough to wait a week for her to pay me as she requested in case she'd so conveniently forgotten that fact.
She got them that Friday but I hate bidders like that!!!
Oh and I also sold a lot of 3 paperbacks and sent them media mail..the guy emails me and gets obnoxious saying things like "I know media mail doesn't take THAT long!!"
So I emailed him the receipt from the post office and didn't hear from him. Then yesterday, he emails me again saying IT'S BEEN THREE WEEKS, I'VE SOLD AND SENT THINGS MEDIA MAIL AND THEY DON'T TAKE THAT LONG!!! WHERE ARE MY BOOKS????
It's SO hard to be kind when people are acting like that so I told him that I sent him the receipt and that I could give him a refund minus shipping since yes, I did send them.
So he emails me back this morning..."I got the books. I see by the stamp that you sent them on the 28th. I don't know why they took so long, I guess we'll never know."
Um yeah, buddy, I mailed them the 28th, the same date that was on the scan of the receipt that I sent you. That's why ebay added that thing to the bottom that says "sellers are not responsible for transit time."
UGH!