Hi Ladies - I was wondering if any of you long time Lily carriers could help me. I purchased the Black Lily about a month ago and I just took her out for the first time. I don't mind the size at all (I have the large one) and I didn't over stuff it either.... but this bag seems to be alittle too heavy. And what's shocking is that I've never been afraid to carry a heavy bag. (I use to carry the MJ Stam and the Chloe paddington and those 2 were heavy) I actually weighed it!! It's 7lbs with my stuff in it. I've heard that your bag should not be more than 10% of your body weight and this one full is less than 5% (yeah I know I'm crazy) I just LOVE the look of it, and I love that I have a bag with room to spare. But it does feel heavy. Did any of you feel this way? And if so, did you get use to it? Should I return it? Please help me decide. (PS - I'd rather not trade this in for the mini because the mini can't go over the shoulder and I need my bag to go on my shoulder.)