My birthday was on Monday. DH didn't get me anything, like always (and like we have decided on). We'll go out to dinner and have a date to enjoy... that's enough, but my MIL bought me some jewelry. It's a nice piece, but one I would never buy for myself...
The things that annoy me with gifts, is that most people don't LISTEN to what you like or dislike or want or don't want. My best friend and my MIL (and dh used to be) TERRIBLE gift givers. And, if you can't GUESS what someone wants, ASK...otherwise you are wasting your money, making me feel obligated to use it and adding clutter to my life. I just hate being wasteful or seeing OTHER people being wasteful. I know it's that they thought that counts, but does it count if they make it TOTALLY obvious that they don't "get" you by getting you continually WRONG gifts?
Point - I NEVER, EVER wear necklaces or bracelets. I wear earrings and pins IF I ever wear jewelry. So, why did my mil buy me a pendant necklace? I also never wear silver because I don't look good in it, so why did she get it in silver?
It's always like that. I would just rather not get gifts than pretend I like something someone got for me. Now I'm obligated to wear a necklace and even obligated to buy a longer chain as the one she got for it is too short for my chubby neck. So now that gift is costing me money.
I would much rather her just give me a card, bake me a cake and wish me a nice day... instead I got a gift that's not me, made my own birthday dinner and didn't have cake because I refuse to make my own (and I'm a cake decorator/baker!)
I guess I'm feeling grumpy and not looking forward to Christmas gifts... at least I know DH won't waste... I bought my gift already in those stockings! LOL
The things that annoy me with gifts, is that most people don't LISTEN to what you like or dislike or want or don't want. My best friend and my MIL (and dh used to be) TERRIBLE gift givers. And, if you can't GUESS what someone wants, ASK...otherwise you are wasting your money, making me feel obligated to use it and adding clutter to my life. I just hate being wasteful or seeing OTHER people being wasteful. I know it's that they thought that counts, but does it count if they make it TOTALLY obvious that they don't "get" you by getting you continually WRONG gifts?
Point - I NEVER, EVER wear necklaces or bracelets. I wear earrings and pins IF I ever wear jewelry. So, why did my mil buy me a pendant necklace? I also never wear silver because I don't look good in it, so why did she get it in silver?
It's always like that. I would just rather not get gifts than pretend I like something someone got for me. Now I'm obligated to wear a necklace and even obligated to buy a longer chain as the one she got for it is too short for my chubby neck. So now that gift is costing me money.
I would much rather her just give me a card, bake me a cake and wish me a nice day... instead I got a gift that's not me, made my own birthday dinner and didn't have cake because I refuse to make my own (and I'm a cake decorator/baker!)
I guess I'm feeling grumpy and not looking forward to Christmas gifts... at least I know DH won't waste... I bought my gift already in those stockings! LOL