what should i do?

rensky

rensky

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Jul 5, 2006
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#1
my SO just told me he doesn't want me to give him a v-day present..because there's about a month till i graduate and work..he says he will feel bad if he receives a present because he knows that i am a bit tight on budget right now..

but on the other hand..im just someone who'd give presents on all occasions in a year...i'd feel bad if he gave me something but i didn't give him anything!

what should i do.....................?

:sad:
 
#4
lol! ^ at above

the only other thing i'd add is something swt, handmade and sentimental value. e.g a scrapbook that doesn't cost much if at all?

you should still celebrate it! just not with materialistic goods.
 
#9
Cook him something special. Give him a massage. Make him a card.

Or: organize his CDs, polish his shoes, clean his bathroom, do something he doesn't ever do for himself...
 
#10
When me and the BF were still in school, I made him a little portrait of himself -- it was a bit goofy but it took me a week to sketch it out and paint it on the canvas. The whole thing cost me $10 but to this day, that is the thing my BF pulls out when someone asks what is the best present he has ever gotten.
 
#11
Everyone is right. Gifts don't have to be something he can hold in his hands. A sweet gesture, a nice meal, a little nookie, it's all good and I'm sure he'll love it! ;)
 
#12
How about making his favorite meal or his fave dessert? Or how about making him a cool mix cd with songs that remind him of your fun times or something along those lines. I bought my BF a small teddy bear for our first VD, and its still in his dorm room. :love:
 
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