I almost bought the Damier Alma (was WAY too worried about the vachetta on the monogram one). I was worried about distortion too though and it seemed heavy and kind of "blocky" to me. I already have the Babylone which is very structured and heavy and never use it, so I was afraid I wouldn't use the Alma and went with a Damier Speedy instead. I know you've already got the Damier Speedy. I do love the white multicolor alma, but I'm too old for it. Your girls are younger; therefore, you're younger - it's a beautiful bag too!