Our Very Own: Purse Secret - Page 3

twiggers · Dec 8th, 2007, 09:54 PM

Thanks Louis! It's my pleasure!!! Especially helpful with the New Year coming...maybe people get a secret out and will then be able to get a fresh start for the New Year!

lolaluvsu · Dec 8th, 2007, 10:15 PM

wow, twiggers. i think that people might not only be refreshed but find that they can also have support for the pf. congrats on something that can truly help people.

Zophie · Dec 8th, 2007, 10:18 PM

I love this thread. I'm just trying to think if there is any secret I'm willing to put out there. It can be cathartic to get it out though. I hope it helps those that have already sent one in.

lv-lover · Dec 8th, 2007, 10:19 PM

Oooh, twiggers, this is such a great idea! It's very theraputic..I might send in a secret also.

omgsweet · Dec 8th, 2007, 11:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by twiggers

Another Secret Emailed:

This takes alot to get off my chest. And even tho I
know it will be anonymous, I know people will judge.
When My Fiance and I started dating I became pregnant
and we told no one about it at first. We weren't
financially stable and I didn't want to bring a child
into the world and make them suffer. It all sounds
selfish now but in my heart I think I did the best
thing. I went through and entire 10 month pregnancy
without telling any of our family members, and when
she was born she was placed for adoption. No one
knows, except for us, and now the internet, ironic
enough. She lives 10 miles away from us now, and
things of course took a turn for the better for us
abot 6 months after she was born. I live every day
with regret and wonder if I had just held out and
fought through everything she could be with us now.

OMG. The pain you are feeling must be so intese ...

wow...I dont know what to say. At least she is not too far away. Are you allowed to visit her? Hugs to you!!!

QueenOfDa702 · Dec 9th, 2007, 02:43 AM

Wow, *HUGS* to everyone who has had their secret posted.
Like others have said, if any of you need someone to talk to, please PM me.
Your secret will be safe with me.

ragamuffin · Dec 9th, 2007, 02:51 AM

This is so great! I'm gals people have posted! I'm still working on some courage. You are all wonderful people.

vintagerose · Dec 9th, 2007, 04:45 AM

Wow, honestly, this is the best thread ever! It's a great idea, I love it. Thanks twiggers

twiggers · Dec 9th, 2007, 08:07 AM

Another Secret:

My parents divorced when I was 1yr old. I don't have too much of a memory about him. Things went down between my mother and father that weren't too good. When my mother had financial problems she filed for child support for my brother and I (I was 10 and my brother 17). He decided he couldn't afford to pay so he denied us in court, basically my mother was called a whore and we weren't his children. After years of this, well yes we finally tried to let it go. He called some family members of ours to tell us he wanted to see us. (My brother is now 34 and I am 28). He was going to surgery and wanted to clear the slate, or his one conscious. Anyhoo, we didn't want to go but my mother convinced is it would benefically to us to let go. We didn't but he of course never apologized for what he did or said. Well, I now know that I have a half brother that I have not even met. And I don't know how I feel about that. It's just weird knowing that you are related to someone you have not even met.

twiggers · Dec 9th, 2007, 08:08 AM

Another Secret(s) This Was All From The Same Person:

I cheated on math from 6th-12th grade and still managed an easy B in my college algebra course at 17 years old. I could have been the smart one but I was too lazy.

I used to make myself throw up and would starve myself, now my fingers and toes are cold at night.

My Daddy stole money from us and now I am scared he will hurt us around Christmas time. What if he is following us? If he attacked me would I have the courage to fight back?

twiggers · Dec 9th, 2007, 08:54 AM

Another Secret (again a series of secrets sent in one email):

Sometimes I dont find my husband attractive and sometimes he actually repulses me. Other times I feel he is the sexiest man on earth.

This is gross, but I need to say it. I ate my bugars until I was 22 years old. I knew it was disgusting, but I kept doing it.

I am poor, but tell people online that I have money because I am embarassed.

I am embarassed of one of my friends because she is a big girl and dresses sloppy :-( I feel bad about it, but its the truth.

Sometimes I find woman attractive, and I think Im a lesbian. Its really weird, because I am attracted to men too. Maybe Im Bi?

riffraff · Dec 9th, 2007, 08:56 AM

What on earth are Bugars???

QueenOfDa702 · Dec 9th, 2007, 09:06 AM

Woah, these secrets are getting pretty crazy!

Wow. Im speechless!

candac3mari3 · Dec 9th, 2007, 09:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by riffraff

What on earth are Bugars???

boogers! (the snot from your nose)

riffraff · Dec 9th, 2007, 09:57 AM

^^^^ Thanks - I had to ask didn't I.

Dec 8th, 2007, 09:54 PM	#31
twiggers Earning my PhD Joined: May 2006 Location: The Library Posts: 19,880	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret Thanks Louis! It's my pleasure!!! Especially helpful with the New Year coming...maybe people get a secret out and will then be able to get a fresh start for the New Year! __________________ Check out my new blog.....and see how I eliminated $50,000 in credit card debt in just 7 months.... COME JOIN THE COOLEST CLUB AROUND...THE CURBING CONSUMERISM CLUB

Dec 8th, 2007, 10:15 PM	#32
lolaluvsu Quiero Bolsas Joined: Aug 2007 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 1,124	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret wow, twiggers. i think that people might not only be refreshed but find that they can also have support for the pf. congrats on something that can truly help people. __________________ Wishing upon a Bbag for: Vert Gazon Day, RT Day, & Greige Weekender

Dec 8th, 2007, 10:18 PM	#33
Zophie I <3 my Maltese! Joined: Feb 2007 Location: New Orleans, LA Posts: 6,602	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret I love this thread. I'm just trying to think if there is any secret I'm willing to put out there. It can be cathartic to get it out though. I hope it helps those that have already sent one in. __________________

Dec 8th, 2007, 10:19 PM	#34
lv-lover Member Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 5,655	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret Oooh, twiggers, this is such a great idea! It's very theraputic..I might send in a secret also. __________________ "On ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur, l'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux"

Dec 9th, 2007, 02:43 AM	#36
QueenOfDa702 Misunderestimated. Joined: Jan 2007 Location: Vegas where we let it all hang out. Your Vegas is showing! Posts: 5,408	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret Wow, HUGS to everyone who has had their secret posted. Like others have said, if any of you need someone to talk to, please PM me. Your secret will be safe with me. __________________ ~Valeen~ *~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~* Click HERE to visit MySpace

Dec 9th, 2007, 02:51 AM	#37
ragamuffin Member Joined: Dec 2006 Location: All hell for a basement Posts: 520	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret This is so great! I'm gals people have posted! I'm still working on some courage. You are all wonderful people.

Dec 9th, 2007, 04:45 AM	#38
vintagerose through the glass Joined: Feb 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 130	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret Wow, honestly, this is the best thread ever! It's a great idea, I love it. Thanks twiggers __________________

Dec 9th, 2007, 08:07 AM	#39
twiggers Earning my PhD Joined: May 2006 Location: The Library Posts: 19,880	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret Another Secret: My parents divorced when I was 1yr old. I don't have too much of a memory about him. Things went down between my mother and father that weren't too good. When my mother had financial problems she filed for child support for my brother and I (I was 10 and my brother 17). He decided he couldn't afford to pay so he denied us in court, basically my mother was called a whore and we weren't his children. After years of this, well yes we finally tried to let it go. He called some family members of ours to tell us he wanted to see us. (My brother is now 34 and I am 28). He was going to surgery and wanted to clear the slate, or his one conscious. Anyhoo, we didn't want to go but my mother convinced is it would benefically to us to let go. We didn't but he of course never apologized for what he did or said. Well, I now know that I have a half brother that I have not even met. And I don't know how I feel about that. It's just weird knowing that you are related to someone you have not even met. __________________ Check out my new blog.....and see how I eliminated $50,000 in credit card debt in just 7 months.... COME JOIN THE COOLEST CLUB AROUND...THE CURBING CONSUMERISM CLUB

Dec 9th, 2007, 08:08 AM	#40
twiggers Earning my PhD Joined: May 2006 Location: The Library Posts: 19,880	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret Another Secret(s) This Was All From The Same Person: I cheated on math from 6th-12th grade and still managed an easy B in my college algebra course at 17 years old. I could have been the smart one but I was too lazy. I used to make myself throw up and would starve myself, now my fingers and toes are cold at night. My Daddy stole money from us and now I am scared he will hurt us around Christmas time. What if he is following us? If he attacked me would I have the courage to fight back? __________________ Check out my new blog.....and see how I eliminated $50,000 in credit card debt in just 7 months.... COME JOIN THE COOLEST CLUB AROUND...THE CURBING CONSUMERISM CLUB

Dec 9th, 2007, 08:54 AM	#41
twiggers Earning my PhD Joined: May 2006 Location: The Library Posts: 19,880	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret Another Secret (again a series of secrets sent in one email): Sometimes I dont find my husband attractive and sometimes he actually repulses me. Other times I feel he is the sexiest man on earth. This is gross, but I need to say it. I ate my bugars until I was 22 years old. I knew it was disgusting, but I kept doing it. I am poor, but tell people online that I have money because I am embarassed. I am embarassed of one of my friends because she is a big girl and dresses sloppy :-( I feel bad about it, but its the truth. Sometimes I find woman attractive, and I think Im a lesbian. Its really weird, because I am attracted to men too. Maybe Im Bi? __________________ Check out my new blog.....and see how I eliminated $50,000 in credit card debt in just 7 months.... COME JOIN THE COOLEST CLUB AROUND...THE CURBING CONSUMERISM CLUB

Dec 9th, 2007, 08:56 AM	#42
riffraff Sofa King Blonde! Joined: Feb 2007 Location: UK Posts: 4,716	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret What on earth are Bugars??? __________________ A girl should be two things: Classy and Fabulous. - Coco Chanel As long as you know men are like children, you know everything. - Coco Chanel Deep, deep inside the brain of every woman is a small bungalow in which lives a little lady who is totally obsessed with shoes and handbags

Dec 9th, 2007, 09:06 AM	#43
QueenOfDa702 Misunderestimated. Joined: Jan 2007 Location: Vegas where we let it all hang out. Your Vegas is showing! Posts: 5,408	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret Woah, these secrets are getting pretty crazy! Wow. Im speechless! __________________ ~Valeen~ *~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~* Click HERE to visit MySpace

Dec 9th, 2007, 09:57 AM	#45
riffraff Sofa King Blonde! Joined: Feb 2007 Location: UK Posts: 4,716	Re: Our Very Own: Purse Secret ^^^^ Thanks - I had to ask didn't I. __________________ A girl should be two things: Classy and Fabulous. - Coco Chanel As long as you know men are like children, you know everything. - Coco Chanel Deep, deep inside the brain of every woman is a small bungalow in which lives a little lady who is totally obsessed with shoes and handbags