[KAOKim]

Originally Posted by EmilyK

I'd be honored to be in any club with you, Merika


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I don't know what ageplay is, either... pretending to be way younger/older than you really are? A kind of roleplay?

Edit: I just looked it up (from Wikipedia):

Ageplay is a form of regressive roleplay in which a physical adult takes on the role of a child. This may be purely regressive (in order to re-experience childhood in a non-sexual sense), or sexual (the roleplaying of a child/adult relationship in sex, which may be a sexual fetish and is often grouped within BDSM).

Roleplaying adult/child scenarios sexually is controversial as it can arouse concern in many people's minds, due to the sensitive nature of its subject matter. However as with other sexual fantasy it is not, by itself, necessarily a problem, and can be for some, a healthy or healing outlet, and for others like any fantasy an exploration of different roles and feelings.

Thanks I didn't even think to Wiki it!

[Shari]

Originally Posted by merika

Shall we form the Hairy Ladies' Club?

I am hairy too....

I am not hairy but I do have this one blonde hair that grows from my SHOULDER and it grows about and inch and a half long and I always have to pluck it. There, that's my secret and now you all know!

[HubbaWubba]

To the Hairy Lady, don't worry about it. We have hair for a reason when we are adults. You are less likely to get camel toe if you have hair.

To the Age Play person, in my opinion, if it is two consenting adults and you don't physically do permanent damage, go for it. It is healthy to have fantasies and you shouldn't be ashamed. Your feelings most likely stem from your father if you are female or mother if you are male. Have you watched videos of this? All in all, whatever floats your boat.

[QueenOfDa702]

Originally Posted by HubbaWubba

To the Hairy Lady, don't worry about it. We have hair for a reason when we are adults. You are less likely to get camel toe if you have hair.

To the Age Play person, in my opinion, if it is two consenting adults and you don't physically do permanent damage, go for it. It is healthy to have fantasies and you shouldn't be ashamed. Your feelings most likely stem from your father if you are female or mother if you are male. Have you watched videos of this? All in all, whatever floats your boat.

OMG Hubba, you had to go there, didnt you? lmao!

P.S I'm super hairy! I blame it all on my Native American Dad lol!

[Florasun]

Originally Posted by HubbaWubba

You are less likely to get camel toe if you have hair.

.... ROFLMAO

[HubbaWubba]

^^^Now you know my secret.

[priiin]

Thank you for posthing this thread twiggers!

I am going to think about some of these and post my thoughts tomorrow. Some are very big problems..

[harlem_cutie]

Originally Posted by twiggers

Secret:

I'm totallt open to comments... kind of want them anyways

I found out today that I have HPV. And I also found out that 80% of college women will have it by the time they graduate. The only symptops are having a wart, you know, down there. Some people get a bunch some get a few, and it's totally possible to have the virus without having a wart. The one I have is small but I don't like it, so I had it removed today. They said it's likely to not come back and it's really likely that this will be the only one I'll ever have. It's not really gross, it seems like a skin tag or something. The way that I think I should look at the situation is just like a regular wart that you get on your finger. It's just a virus.

I just broke up with my abusive boyfriend (he didn't beat me, but it was a lot of mental anguish) and I'm scared to tell him the news because he's being a complete jerk and I'm afraid that he'll tell people and try to make my life more of a living hell. I think I got it from him and I don't want to accuse him of it. so if I have it, he has it. I want to tell him because it's the responsible thing to do but I'm scared of the consequences and what kind of action he'll take. I'm scared to tell my mom (I'm in college). I'm scared that the next guy that I want to date will be scared and not want to be with me because of this. I'm scared that I'll never be happy and no one will ever want to marry me. I mean, if I started to date someone and then found out they have HPV, I wouldn't want to touch them. But now I'm in this crappy situation. I feel worthless and that I have nothing to live for. I'm scared to death and I've not been thinking very good thoughts lately. I don't know how to move on, I don't know what to do.

Alot of people have HPV (80%!!!) so as long as you take care of yourself and go for regular gyn visits you should be cool. Now that you had the wart removed you should feel better but you should know that the va jay jay is *interesting* and all kids of things happen down there that women are too embarassed to talk about, myself included. If anything bothers you go see your doctor.

If you are scared of your current bf then this is not someone that you should be with. We all deserve to be loved without fear and if he's not doing that for you then walk away because you deserve a million times better.

Honestly, do you need to tell your mom? I wouldn't unless it was life-threatening which I don't think HPV is. I think since you just got diagnosed and are probably in the middle of coming to grips with it you are overreacting just a bit. I would be too.

You are beautiful and you deserve to be loved but before you can get the love of another you must learn to love yourself!! Whether or not you know it, you rock!

[harlem_cutie]

Originally Posted by twiggers

And another:

To my man:

Stop bitching at me when I don't clean the house. I work all day and I pay all the bills-- yours AND mine. Why don't YOU clean the freaking place for a change.
Stop telling me that you don't make messes. I spent an hour cleaning YOUR bathroom last night, jerk.
Stop whining about money. I make twice as much as you do because I have a college degree, and you constantly make fun of me for it.
Pay some of the freaking bills. HELP ME OUT HERE. Don't make me feel like a jerk for asking.
Get over my purse addiction. Your RC cars and playstation and computer games you've bought this year cost as much as several new bags. Let me have a little luxury. I work my ass off for it.
Get into the Christmas thing. I don't know if it's an excuse to not buy me a gift or something, but my family is very traditional about Christmas and if you want to be a part of my family this is something you've got to deal with, not roll your eyes at.
Stop looking at porn on the internet when I'm sitting across the room from you. I know you're doing it. I'm not stupid. The headphones don't mask the moaning.
Stop lying to me about the myspace messages with your ex. I know you're doing it. I also know they're harmless, but you lying doesn't make it look that way.
Learn how to dress! Levi's that have been patched 5 times and tank tops with greasy holes aren't attractive.
Give me a little bit of credit for the fact that I cook, clean, work a full time job and pay all the bills. + I'm like 11 months pregnant
Stop talking about how much you hate my cat. I told you I was getting a cat and you said it was fine. Now all you do is terrorize it and talk about how you hate cats. I put up with your dog. DEAL WITH IT.

Comments WELCOME.

**** I feel like I wrote this. The bold is what we have in common. Man, sometimes I just look at DH like "wtf was I thinking?" we are in counseling. I hope it works. Selfish prick.

[gettinpurseonal]

I found out a little over a year ago I had HPV as well - not warts but cancer. I have never had a venereal disease and was with my husband since I was 20 years old (now almost 39 but divorced 2 yrs ago, separated 4 yrs ago). HPV, as terrible as it is, is extremely commonplace. As you said, 80% of all women will have it, but most get over it just like the cold virus. HPV does not necessarily mean warts - I don't have warts. I got cervical cancer. I had surgery last year and had another bad pap, so we did a biopsy and...it's a long story, but I need one more clear pap to be in the clear. This virus can lay dormant for years so there is no way of knowing who gave it to who, but you had to get it from a man. It is really nothing to be ashamed of. Many married women have it too because most men were with some other woman before they married their wife. Don't feel dirty or ashamed - if other people act that way, they should know they have a good chance of having it too (or had it) and that NOBODY is immune to it unless they are a virgin.

While I am on the topic, everyone make sure to get your pap done EVERY year!!! Cervical cancer is the #1 killer of women worldwide, but not in the U.S. because we have the pap test. Early detection saves lives and cervical cancer is very easy to cure if caught early. Thank God mine was! Not every doctor is currently testing for HPV however, as the test is new, and there is nothing you can do about it anyway unless you get cancer or warts.

Originally Posted by twiggers

Secret:

I'm totallt open to comments... kind of want them anyways

I found out today that I have HPV. And I also found out that 80% of college women will have it by the time they graduate. The only symptops are having a wart, you know, down there. Some people get a bunch some get a few, and it's totally possible to have the virus without having a wart. The one I have is small but I don't like it, so I had it removed today. They said it's likely to not come back and it's really likely that this will be the only one I'll ever have. It's not really gross, it seems like a skin tag or something. The way that I think I should look at the situation is just like a regular wart that you get on your finger. It's just a virus.

I just broke up with my abusive boyfriend (he didn't beat me, but it was a lot of mental anguish) and I'm scared to tell him the news because he's being a complete jerk and I'm afraid that he'll tell people and try to make my life more of a living hell. I think I got it from him and I don't want to accuse him of it. so if I have it, he has it. I want to tell him because it's the responsible thing to do but I'm scared of the consequences and what kind of action he'll take. I'm scared to tell my mom (I'm in college). I'm scared that the next guy that I want to date will be scared and not want to be with me because of this. I'm scared that I'll never be happy and no one will ever want to marry me. I mean, if I started to date someone and then found out they have HPV, I wouldn't want to touch them. But now I'm in this crappy situation. I feel worthless and that I have nothing to live for. I'm scared to death and I've not been thinking very good thoughts lately. I don't know how to move on, I don't know what to do.

[Zophie]

Originally Posted by HubbaWubba

To the Hairy Lady, don't worry about it. We have hair for a reason when we are adults. You are less likely to get camel toe if you have hair.

oh, never knew that. Maybe that's why I always feel like I'm getting camel toe! It's the drawback of having had brazilian laser treatments I guess. But naturally I'm pretty hairy and I think a lot of women are. I even have one occasionally I find on my chest just growing out of nowhere. really weird.

[missisa07]

Originally Posted by twiggers

OK We have some secrets already....I'll post them one post at a time so that we can respond to each one individually if we'd like:

I am quite accompished professionaly, my colleagues are always in wonder at how well I cope and I how I never let anything get me down.
At home my life is a shambles. My husband has been seeing another woman for 7 years, they have bought a house but he won't move in it with her, becuase "we are not the kind of family that divorces". We appear at all public and family finctions together and nobody knows. My son suffers from bipolar disorder and is a major druc addict. Mostly I sit home by myself most nights. I never cry, I am famous for my laugh, they tell me my smile is warm and I am compassionate. If I ever did cry, I am afraid I would never stop.

Wow, that was a really heartbreaking post for me to read. Especially the last line. *hugs*

[KAOKim]

Originally Posted by gettinpurseonal

I found out a little over a year ago I had HPV as well - not warts but cancer. I have never had a venereal disease and was with my husband since I was 20 years old (now almost 39 but divorced 2 yrs ago, separated 4 yrs ago). HPV, as terrible as it is, is extremely commonplace. As you said, 80% of all women will have it, but most get over it just like the cold virus. HPV does not necessarily mean warts - I don't have warts. I got cervical cancer. I had surgery last year and had another bad pap, so we did a biopsy and...it's a long story, but I need one more clear pap to be in the clear. This virus can lay dormant for years so there is no way of knowing who gave it to who, but you had to get it from a man. It is really nothing to be ashamed of. Many married women have it too because most men were with some other woman before they married their wife. Don't feel dirty or ashamed - if other people act that way, they should know they have a good chance of having it too (or had it) and that NOBODY is immune to it unless they are a virgin.

While I am on the topic, everyone make sure to get your pap done EVERY year!!! Cervical cancer is the #1 killer of women worldwide, but not in the U.S. because we have the pap test. Early detection saves lives and cervical cancer is very easy to cure if caught early. Thank God mine was! Not every doctor is currently testing for HPV however, as the test is new, and there is nothing you can do about it anyway unless you get cancer or warts.

I just wanted to also mention that there is now a HPV Vaccination. While it only protects you against four strands its still very important. Your insurance will only cover it if you are under 26. I got the first of the three series of shots about a month ago. I asked my gyno if she thought I should get it and she said she wishes she could give it to her two young boys. The US gives vaccinations that protect against diseases that most US residents will not even come in contact with. Most people come in contact at some point with HPV. Girls ask your gyno!!

[Laurie8504]

Originally Posted by Shari

I am not hairy but I do have this one blonde hair that grows from my SHOULDER and it grows about and inch and a half long and I always have to pluck it. There, that's my secret and now you all know!

Me too! only it's on my cheek about an inch under my right eye instead of on my shoulder. It just shows up sometimes, but it's really hard to see so I think that's how it ends up getting that long...but I'm a brunette, weird.

[Florasun]

Originally Posted by gettinpurseonal

I found out a little over a year ago I had HPV as well - not warts but cancer. I have never had a venereal disease and was with my husband since I was 20 years old (now almost 39 but divorced 2 yrs ago, separated 4 yrs ago). HPV, as terrible as it is, is extremely commonplace. As you said, 80% of all women will have it, but most get over it just like the cold virus. HPV does not necessarily mean warts - I don't have warts. I got cervical cancer. I had surgery last year and had another bad pap, so we did a biopsy and...it's a long story, but I need one more clear pap to be in the clear.

Good luck - hope you beat this cancer!