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lvuittonaddict · Sep 17th, 2009, 07:11 PM

I guess this is kind of similar to the Our Very Own: Purse Secret Pt 1 and Part 2

But....What are your biggest fears?

I'll start- I am terrified of growing up and having responsibilities. I'm so scared that I'm going to fail at whatever endeavors I take on. I lie awake at night thinking "omg, im getting closer to growing up and depending upon myself" Im afraid of letting myself down. I may come off as confident, sure of myself- even almost arrogant....but you overcompensate for what you're lacking, right?

Almost everyone has set goals or is in the process of setting goals for themselves. I don't because if i don't have any goals, there's no way I can fail to reach them. And i know that by doing so, I have crippled myself.

meggyg8r · Sep 17th, 2009, 07:15 PM

A silly one: cockroaches--I'm terrified and I cannot deal with these whatsoever!! Thank goodness I haven't seen one at all since we moved into our new house a year and a half ago. Boric acid all around the entrances/windows really helps!!

A serious one: I'm terrified I will never be able to have kids. I've never actively tried to get pregnant, I have no real reason to think that I will not be able to when DF and I start trying to get pregnant; I am just terrified that I won't be able to. I have nothing against adoption (DF is actually adopted.. as is his sister and his mother!), but I would really love to have a child of my own and I just worry that I won't be able to when it's time.

HauteMama · Sep 17th, 2009, 08:17 PM

Something happening to one of my children would have to be my biggest nightmare. I don't know how/if I could cope.

dallas · Sep 17th, 2009, 08:22 PM

Agree with HauteMama. Just the thought of something happening to my children leaves me in a cold sweat.

girliceclimber · Sep 17th, 2009, 08:27 PM

Also silly but -- I am completely terrified of spiders. I can't squish them, can't get near them, and if you put one on me, I'm pretty sure after I finished flipping out I would never speak to you again... ever.
I can't think of a specific, serious one right now.

blue gatorade · Sep 17th, 2009, 09:03 PM

spiders. i will literally run away and cry if i see one. they freak me out so bad.

Green Zebra · Sep 17th, 2009, 09:36 PM

centipedes....worse than spiders to me...

Espinosa · Sep 17th, 2009, 09:43 PM

Rollercoasters and birds are my craziest fears!

xlana · Sep 17th, 2009, 09:56 PM

A silly fear: I'm terrified of bees and wasps. I literally cannot function when I see one. I will stop what I am doing and distance myself from it. Even seeing pictures of them makes me nervous. I've been stung twice by a bee and I'm not allergic.

A fairly serious fear: I'm scared of deep and dark waters. I have this nightmare where I am in the middle of the ocean (or any dark body of water for that matter) and I can't see what's below me. When I play video games that require me to go under dark murky waters, I get anxious even though it's just a video game. I know this is just a fear of the unknown, and I understand why I'm scared of it -I'm a total control freak.

PrettyInPink · Sep 17th, 2009, 11:31 PM

#1... ending up alone for the rest of my life. It's hard to admit, but it's true.
#2... Bees. I'm TERRIFIED of them.
#3... Needles. I avoid going to the doctor at ALL COSTS.

madamefifi · Sep 17th, 2009, 11:38 PM

Death. Not my own, but my loved ones.

And this may sound crazy but I absolutely dread the inevitable day when my special kitty Laszlo will go to the Rainbow Bridge. He is only 7 and quite healthy but I still think about it sometimes. When I look into his big green eyes and see the love there (and it IS there, I don't care what anyone says, animals feel love just like we do) I simply cannot imagine life without him.

butterfly36029 · Sep 18th, 2009, 01:15 AM

Bugs, spiders, coackroaches, any type of bug you can imagine...really big dogs and worst of all, big black butterflies....

http://kenlai.files.wordpress.com/20...witch-moth.jpg here's a picture of the black butterflies I am scared of...I literally scream and run when I see them...just looking at this picture makes my pulse race, i opened it really quick copy/pasted it and closed it!!

butterfly36029 · Sep 18th, 2009, 01:16 AM

Yes, I just realized my name is "butterfly" but that's not because of the black butterflies but because of a book I read :-)

xlana · Sep 18th, 2009, 01:25 AM

^^
It's okay that your name is butterfly, because that's not a butterfly but a moth! lol

butterfly36029 · Sep 18th, 2009, 01:27 AM

lol...ok, you're right...!!

Sep 17th, 2009, 07:11 PM	#1
lvuittonaddict OP Avada Kadavra Joined: Sep 2007 Location: Bethesda, MD Posts: 3,648	Lions & Tigers & Bears... But What's Your Biggest Fear? I guess this is kind of similar to the Our Very Own: Purse Secret Pt 1 and Part 2 But....What are your biggest fears? I'll start- I am terrified of growing up and having responsibilities. I'm so scared that I'm going to fail at whatever endeavors I take on. I lie awake at night thinking "omg, im getting closer to growing up and depending upon myself" Im afraid of letting myself down. I may come off as confident, sure of myself- even almost arrogant....but you overcompensate for what you're lacking, right? Almost everyone has set goals or is in the process of setting goals for themselves. I don't because if i don't have any goals, there's no way I can fail to reach them. And i know that by doing so, I have crippled myself.
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Sep 17th, 2009, 08:22 PM	#4
dallas Yeah ano Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 4,272	Agree with HauteMama. Just the thought of something happening to my children leaves me in a cold sweat.
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Sep 17th, 2009, 09:43 PM	#8
Espinosa Member Joined: Jun 2009 Location: Toronto Posts: 149	Rollercoasters and birds are my craziest fears!
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Sep 17th, 2009, 09:56 PM	#9
xlana Gizmo Loves RM Too! Joined: Sep 2006 Location: East Bay, CA Posts: 3,958	A silly fear: I'm terrified of bees and wasps. I literally cannot function when I see one. I will stop what I am doing and distance myself from it. Even seeing pictures of them makes me nervous. I've been stung twice by a bee and I'm not allergic. A fairly serious fear: I'm scared of deep and dark waters. I have this nightmare where I am in the middle of the ocean (or any dark body of water for that matter) and I can't see what's below me. When I play video games that require me to go under dark murky waters, I get anxious even though it's just a video game. I know this is just a fear of the unknown, and I understand why I'm scared of it -I'm a total control freak.
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Sep 17th, 2009, 11:31 PM	#10
PrettyInPink <3 Joined: Jun 2006 Location: Hockey Town! Posts: 1,445	#1... ending up alone for the rest of my life. It's hard to admit, but it's true. #2... Bees. I'm TERRIFIED of them. #3... Needles. I avoid going to the doctor at ALL COSTS.
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Sep 17th, 2009, 07:15 PM	#2
meggyg8r newlywed! Joined: Feb 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 9,700	A silly one: cockroaches--I'm terrified and I cannot deal with these whatsoever!! Thank goodness I haven't seen one at all since we moved into our new house a year and a half ago. Boric acid all around the entrances/windows really helps!! A serious one: I'm terrified I will never be able to have kids. I've never actively tried to get pregnant, I have no real reason to think that I will not be able to when DF and I start trying to get pregnant; I am just terrified that I won't be able to. I have nothing against adoption (DF is actually adopted.. as is his sister and his mother!), but I would really love to have a child of my own and I just worry that I won't be able to when it's time.
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Sep 17th, 2009, 08:17 PM	#3
HauteMama Member Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,839	Something happening to one of my children would have to be my biggest nightmare. I don't know how/if I could cope.
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Sep 17th, 2009, 08:27 PM	#5
girliceclimber Member Joined: Oct 2006 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 1,069	Also silly but -- I am completely terrified of spiders. I can't squish them, can't get near them, and if you put one on me, I'm pretty sure after I finished flipping out I would never speak to you again... ever. I can't think of a specific, serious one right now.

Sep 17th, 2009, 09:03 PM	#6
blue gatorade we are the champions Joined: Aug 2007 Location: home of the 2009 Stanley Cup Champions! Posts: 504	spiders. i will literally run away and cry if i see one. they freak me out so bad.

Sep 17th, 2009, 09:36 PM	#7
Green Zebra funemployed for now Joined: Oct 2008 Location: Second City Posts: 931	centipedes....worse than spiders to me...

Sep 17th, 2009, 11:38 PM	#11
madamefifi cat hoarder Joined: Aug 2006 Location: virginia Posts: 4,020	Death. Not my own, but my loved ones. And this may sound crazy but I absolutely dread the inevitable day when my special kitty Laszlo will go to the Rainbow Bridge. He is only 7 and quite healthy but I still think about it sometimes. When I look into his big green eyes and see the love there (and it IS there, I don't care what anyone says, animals feel love just like we do) I simply cannot imagine life without him.
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Sep 18th, 2009, 01:15 AM	#12
butterfly36029 Miu Miu addict Joined: Dec 2007 Location: Miu Miu heaven Posts: 3,502	Bugs, spiders, coackroaches, any type of bug you can imagine...really big dogs and worst of all, big black butterflies.... http://kenlai.files.wordpress.com/20...witch-moth.jpg here's a picture of the black butterflies I am scared of...I literally scream and run when I see them...just looking at this picture makes my pulse race, i opened it really quick copy/pasted it and closed it!!
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Sep 18th, 2009, 01:16 AM	#13
butterfly36029 Miu Miu addict Joined: Dec 2007 Location: Miu Miu heaven Posts: 3,502	Yes, I just realized my name is "butterfly" but that's not because of the black butterflies but because of a book I read :-)
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Sep 18th, 2009, 01:25 AM	#14
xlana Gizmo Loves RM Too! Joined: Sep 2006 Location: East Bay, CA Posts: 3,958	^^ It's okay that your name is butterfly, because that's not a butterfly but a moth! lol
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Sep 18th, 2009, 01:27 AM	#15
butterfly36029 Miu Miu addict Joined: Dec 2007 Location: Miu Miu heaven Posts: 3,502	lol...ok, you're right...!!
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