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Originally Posted by declaredbeauty
I'm so sick of people blaming the media or models for women and girls having eating disorders. MAYBE if those females out there accepted themselves for who they are.. maybe that would cut down on some off the obsessiveness. No one said to compare yourself to a model or a celeb. They depend on looks for their paychecks.. the majority of other women don't. If you think you are fat lose weight.. if you are happy with yourself stop listening to what others have to say about you.
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Why don't you think the media is the cause of so many eating disorders? Maybe you're right, it isn't the cause for ALL eating disorders..however it IS for many. The media stresses that being skinny is beautiful and young girls (again, SOME, not all) look up to some of these skinny models, celebrities, etc. in magazines, on MTV, everywhere. It's gotten to the point where some countries BANNED their models from being under a certain BMI just because girls and even some guys were having difficulties because of the stick thin models. It DOES have an effect. Maybe not on YOU, but trust me, the media should be put to blame for many eating disorder cases. You're right, no one said compare yourself to a model or a celeb, but you don't need to tell someone to look up to another. Girls can choose to compare themselves to a model if they want, and sometimes sadly they do. I know what you are trying to say and please don't think that I'm trying to argue with you, I just want to speak for all the girls out there who are having this problem. They wouldn't even have the option of comparing themselves to stick then women if there weren't any in the first place. Whoever started this fashion of being stick thin and labeling it beautiful was seriously confused IMO. Sorry in advance, I think my tone might be rude..I had no intention of sounding mean or anything.
Btw, my rant is because I have always been interested in eating disorders. (the cause, psychological/physical factors, etc.) I've studied it and done many projects on it for school and it's just a topic close to my heart I guess.