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paula24 · Nov 5th, 2009, 01:01 PM

I sold coach poppy last Monday Oct26, I send invoice to her and got email from her on friday. That she will make a payment today Nov5,2009 until now still now receive a payment. she told me will pay via paypal. I send remain invoice to her again. but no answer yet. I always got a problem this kind of people that never email back for pay too late. I want to buyer that prompt to pay within 2-4 days but not over more a week. Why people bid athought they dont have money in a bank? my purse is only 150.00 and free shipping. what you think about it? and next week I have to got out town again.. tried to waiting everyday.

Nico3327 · Nov 5th, 2009, 01:43 PM

File a NPB case against this buyer and re-list the item if they still don't pay.

karmenzsofia · Nov 5th, 2009, 03:28 PM

Ditto.

CowPrincess · Nov 5th, 2009, 03:44 PM

I'd give her another 48 hours then file. If she said she'd pay today, she may have to wait till she gets home, or to the bank, or whatever. Many companies frown on people using work computers/internet for personal business. Where I used to work, it was grounds for dismissal if you did ANY kind of personal business on work time using the internet.

shinymagpie · Nov 5th, 2009, 05:03 PM

I agree. Wait until today 5th is over then click on resolve a problem.
Choose I have not been paid, not cancel.
That gives them 4 days to pay. So if they are being true, they will pay very soon and say sorry if you are lucky.
If not, after 4 days you can close it and get your fees back.
As you are going away, just pack the purse and take it with you. No stress either way.
Good luck!

karmenzsofia · Nov 5th, 2009, 05:15 PM

We're on Day #10 -- that's more than enough time, IMO, and more than what eBay specifies. The buyer also has a habit of ignoring emails.

hotshot · Nov 5th, 2009, 05:46 PM

Would just file a NPB.. you have given her more than enough time and her

time is now up according to what ebay specifies

petitechouchou · Nov 5th, 2009, 08:15 PM

Yup, file NPB as you have given her ample time to pay

paula24 · Nov 6th, 2009, 10:28 AM

I report ebay unpaid item this Morning. And got her email.
"Yes I am happy I won the purse. And I am sure that you and your wife hate me for this put I just realized I have a student loan, my first one, due next week. I need the extra money for that. I am terribly sorry but I got a letter in the mail yesterday reminding me of the payment and I need to pay for the first. I would not ask you to hold the item an additional two weeks until I get paid again because in these times I know you need the money. I hope you can understand and not be upset too terribly with me. Beautiful purse absolutely, I would have loved to have it, but I have to make sure this payment goes through so my credit and my education is payed for.

Thank you so much and again I am sorry,"

I am so tried about this people. Why you dont have money please do not bid...
And I would advise her do not pay this purse. keep her money to pay for school better.
This purse not important more than education.
I would not wait another 2 weeks and another weeks again.
I better keep this purse to carry by myself.
she has 4 feedback. latest from 2008. It's seem like scam mail or liar.

shinymagpie · Nov 6th, 2009, 10:35 AM

Paula24

I think she is faking it. But you can check by posting her userid in this service by goofbay ( not eBay).
http://www.goofbay.com/ebay_bid_history_tool.html

If you find that she is actually bidding on a whole lot of other stuff, at least you can feel very strong in lodging the unpaid item and seeing it through. Chances are she has 2 strikes already and doesn't want a 3rd.

Or she genuinely is messed up, which doesn't excuse her from wanting to mess up your life too.

be strong!

paula24 · Nov 10th, 2009, 07:19 AM

she still not pay for it. And another item I sold it on Sunday morning. it is chanel canvas bag sold for 399. until now not hear from from the buyer. I don't know to how to deal about even I told you need to confirm payment within 24 hours and you can make a payment within 4 days.

BrooklynBAP · Nov 10th, 2009, 12:04 PM

that really sucks! i know that i've waited a week to pay in the past, but i made sure it was okay with the seller BEFORE i placed my bid. hopefully you will get a legit buyer the next time around.

Bitstuff · Nov 11th, 2009, 06:03 AM

Screw her. Who cares what sad cock and bull story she tells you, they're a dime a dozen. Even if it's true, a student loan, how sad...how about not bidding on a purse if it means you can't make a loan payment - which you've irresponsibly forgotten about - on time? No one should have the sense of entitlement that she has: I am getting an education, so I'm entitled to not pay for items I've bought until it suits me, and I'm not going to mention it beforehand at all. I'm sorry but that's so annoying to even read; give her a strike and try to forget about it.

shinymagpie · Nov 11th, 2009, 07:14 AM

Paula
Go ahead and file the unpaid item.
You deserve to be paid for your item.
Good luck.

aliysiah · Nov 12th, 2009, 10:19 AM

UGH I hate it when this happens, I got my first late payer today too (but on Bonz). ITA with everyone else, just give her NPB/Neg fb and relist the item. I'm sorry you had to go through such BS!

Nov 5th, 2009, 01:43 PM	#2
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Nov 5th, 2009, 03:28 PM	#3
karmenzsofia Member Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 15,923	Ditto.
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Nov 5th, 2009, 03:44 PM	#4
CowPrincess Member Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 419	I'd give her another 48 hours then file. If she said she'd pay today, she may have to wait till she gets home, or to the bank, or whatever. Many companies frown on people using work computers/internet for personal business. Where I used to work, it was grounds for dismissal if you did ANY kind of personal business on work time using the internet.
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Nov 5th, 2009, 05:03 PM	#5
shinymagpie Member Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 1,081	I agree. Wait until today 5th is over then click on resolve a problem. Choose I have not been paid, not cancel. That gives them 4 days to pay. So if they are being true, they will pay very soon and say sorry if you are lucky. If not, after 4 days you can close it and get your fees back. As you are going away, just pack the purse and take it with you. No stress either way. Good luck!
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Nov 5th, 2009, 05:15 PM	#6
karmenzsofia Member Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 15,923	We're on Day #10 -- that's more than enough time, IMO, and more than what eBay specifies. The buyer also has a habit of ignoring emails.
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Nov 5th, 2009, 01:01 PM	#1
paula24 OP opor Joined: Jun 2006 Location: ohio Queen City Posts: 303	What you think about pay late? I sold coach poppy last Monday Oct26, I send invoice to her and got email from her on friday. That she will make a payment today Nov5,2009 until now still now receive a payment. she told me will pay via paypal. I send remain invoice to her again. but no answer yet. I always got a problem this kind of people that never email back for pay too late. I want to buyer that prompt to pay within 2-4 days but not over more a week. Why people bid athought they dont have money in a bank? my purse is only 150.00 and free shipping. what you think about it? and next week I have to got out town again.. tried to waiting everyday.

Nov 5th, 2009, 05:46 PM	#7
hotshot Member Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 5,229	Would just file a NPB.. you have given her more than enough time and her time is now up according to what ebay specifies
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Nov 5th, 2009, 08:15 PM	#8
petitechouchou "H" is for Hamster Joined: Jun 2009 Location: where the seasons never change Posts: 1,765	Yup, file NPB as you have given her ample time to pay

Nov 6th, 2009, 10:28 AM	#9
paula24 OP opor Joined: Jun 2006 Location: ohio Queen City Posts: 303	I report ebay unpaid item this Morning. And got her email. "Yes I am happy I won the purse. And I am sure that you and your wife hate me for this put I just realized I have a student loan, my first one, due next week. I need the extra money for that. I am terribly sorry but I got a letter in the mail yesterday reminding me of the payment and I need to pay for the first. I would not ask you to hold the item an additional two weeks until I get paid again because in these times I know you need the money. I hope you can understand and not be upset too terribly with me. Beautiful purse absolutely, I would have loved to have it, but I have to make sure this payment goes through so my credit and my education is payed for. Thank you so much and again I am sorry," I am so tried about this people. Why you dont have money please do not bid... And I would advise her do not pay this purse. keep her money to pay for school better. This purse not important more than education. I would not wait another 2 weeks and another weeks again. I better keep this purse to carry by myself. she has 4 feedback. latest from 2008. It's seem like scam mail or liar.

Nov 6th, 2009, 10:35 AM	#10
shinymagpie Member Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 1,081	Paula24 I think she is faking it. But you can check by posting her userid in this service by goofbay ( not eBay). http://www.goofbay.com/ebay_bid_history_tool.html If you find that she is actually bidding on a whole lot of other stuff, at least you can feel very strong in lodging the unpaid item and seeing it through. Chances are she has 2 strikes already and doesn't want a 3rd. Or she genuinely is messed up, which doesn't excuse her from wanting to mess up your life too. be strong!
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Nov 10th, 2009, 07:19 AM	#11
paula24 OP opor Joined: Jun 2006 Location: ohio Queen City Posts: 303	she still not pay for it. And another item I sold it on Sunday morning. it is chanel canvas bag sold for 399. until now not hear from from the buyer. I don't know to how to deal about even I told you need to confirm payment within 24 hours and you can make a payment within 4 days.

Nov 10th, 2009, 12:04 PM	#12
BrooklynBAP Member Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 1,016	that really sucks! i know that i've waited a week to pay in the past, but i made sure it was okay with the seller BEFORE i placed my bid. hopefully you will get a legit buyer the next time around.
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Nov 11th, 2009, 06:03 AM	#13
Bitstuff Member Joined: Mar 2007 Location: Ireland Posts: 1,135	Screw her. Who cares what sad cock and bull story she tells you, they're a dime a dozen. Even if it's true, a student loan, how sad...how about not bidding on a purse if it means you can't make a loan payment - which you've irresponsibly forgotten about - on time? No one should have the sense of entitlement that she has: I am getting an education, so I'm entitled to not pay for items I've bought until it suits me, and I'm not going to mention it beforehand at all. I'm sorry but that's so annoying to even read; give her a strike and try to forget about it.

Nov 11th, 2009, 07:14 AM	#14
shinymagpie Member Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 1,081	Paula Go ahead and file the unpaid item. You deserve to be paid for your item. Good luck.
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Nov 12th, 2009, 10:19 AM	#15
aliysiah Sofa King Banned Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 799	UGH I hate it when this happens, I got my first late payer today too (but on Bonz). ITA with everyone else, just give her NPB/Neg fb and relist the item. I'm sorry you had to go through such BS!
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