SO ANNOYED With BF's MOM!!

Smokehouse · Jun 4th, 2008, 04:19 AM

She knows my eBay ID and I found out she checks it REGULARLY to see what I'm buying and selling!! She also regularly checks my bf's account and can tell him how many bids he has, what's sold, etc. better than he can.

I AM SOOO ANNOYED because I DO NOT WANT her seeing what I"m selling! Some of the things i want to put up are gifts that she gave me that I can no longer use or that I already have! I'm also cleaning out stuff like fetish pants, leather hoochie pants, etc, from my heydays that I"m soo embarrassed to have her see. It is absolutely none of her business what I'm selling or buying, so I don't know why she has to check rebularly.

WTF?? Do you guys find this equally annoying? I tried changing my user ID, but it was pointless because it still shows my old ID linked to my new ID, and she will be able to figure it out.

Any advice?

Smokehouse · Jun 4th, 2008, 04:28 AM

I wanted to create another account, but that would mean I'd have to build my feedback up again.

flychinadoll · Jun 4th, 2008, 04:32 AM

How do you know she checks it? She told you?

nataliam1976 · Jun 4th, 2008, 04:33 AM

aaaargh I would be raging, what a nosy, cheeky person. I would start a completely new ID, feedback doesnt really count any more with all the ridiculous new rules

Smokehouse · Jun 4th, 2008, 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by flychinadoll

How do you know she checks it? She told you?

My bf was on the phone with her this evening, and she asked him what I was up to. (We live together) and he said I was doing eBay stuff. She said that she saw I put some stuff for auction recently, and also told him she checked his account and felt bad because he wasn't getting bids on his items.

Smokehouse · Jun 4th, 2008, 05:06 AM

I should start putting up sex toys and penis enlargers. Maybe that'll teach her not to look.

I cannot begin to tell you how irritated I am right now.

pursewatch · Jun 4th, 2008, 05:20 AM

Wow, your bf's mother have some nerves. The only advice I can give you is to get a new account with eBay.

mooks · Jun 4th, 2008, 06:27 AM

What you can do is change the name of your ID and not use it for 30 days. Once the 30 days are up she won't be able to find you under the old ID anymore.....providing she doesn't make a note of the new name of course!!

Peachy Mary · Jun 4th, 2008, 06:29 AM

Oops, I postet at the same time as Mooks and I wanted to say the same as her... change the name of your ID.

Good luck, I feel your pain, my SO's mother is just as annoying

b3stbuy · Jun 4th, 2008, 07:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Smokehouse

I should start putting up sex toys and penis enlargers. Maybe that'll teach her not to look.

I cannot begin to tell you how irritated I am right now.

hahahha maybe you should....i wonder what her rxn should be

SOLIDGOLD2 · Jun 4th, 2008, 10:34 AM

i would be so annoyed. I would just tell her bluntly its not her business what you sell and to mind her business

bunnymasseuse · Jun 4th, 2008, 10:40 AM

Tell her she's free to bid on something if she likes :)

Otherwise as you would with any item you don't care for, don't look for it!

cutieupdate18 · Jun 4th, 2008, 10:41 AM

The ID change thing is a great idea! I would be so mad!!

candypants1100 · Jun 4th, 2008, 10:41 AM

that's so annoying.

mmmsc · Jun 4th, 2008, 10:43 AM

Can you change the account so you have one buyer acct and one seller account? And then build up FB on the new one and eventually drop the old account??? That is too annoying. There must be some smart way to get around her snoopiness!

Jun 4th, 2008, 04:19 AM	#1
Smokehouse Member	SO ANNOYED With BF's MOM!! She knows my eBay ID and I found out she checks it REGULARLY to see what I'm buying and selling!! She also regularly checks my bf's account and can tell him how many bids he has, what's sold, etc. better than he can. I AM SOOO ANNOYED because I DO NOT WANT her seeing what I"m selling! Some of the things i want to put up are gifts that she gave me that I can no longer use or that I already have! I'm also cleaning out stuff like fetish pants, leather hoochie pants, etc, from my heydays that I"m soo embarrassed to have her see. It is absolutely none of her business what I'm selling or buying, so I don't know why she has to check rebularly. WTF?? Do you guys find this equally annoying? I tried changing my user ID, but it was pointless because it still shows my old ID linked to my new ID, and she will be able to figure it out. Any advice?

Jun 4th, 2008, 04:33 AM	#4
nataliam1976 Hmmmph Location: all around Europe	aaaargh I would be raging, what a nosy, cheeky person. I would start a completely new ID, feedback doesnt really count any more with all the ridiculous new rules __________________ "Buy me, Lady" said the frock, "and I will make you into a BEAUTIFUL and WHOLE and COMPLETE human being". "Do not be SILLY", said the Man, " for a frock alone cannot do that". "TRUE" said the Lady. " I shall have the Shoes and the Bag as well".

Jun 4th, 2008, 05:20 AM	#7
pursewatch I Hate Counterfeits! Location: Urban Jungle	Wow, your bf's mother have some nerves. The only advice I can give you is to get a new account with eBay. __________________ I my hubby.

Jun 4th, 2008, 06:27 AM	#8
mooks Cool Britannia! Location: On The Thames	What you can do is change the name of your ID and not use it for 30 days. Once the 30 days are up she won't be able to find you under the old ID anymore.....providing she doesn't make a note of the new name of course!! __________________

Jun 4th, 2008, 06:29 AM	#9
Peachy Mary Frequently bedazzled Location: Strawberryland	Oops, I postet at the same time as Mooks and I wanted to say the same as her... change the name of your ID. Good luck, I feel your pain, my SO's mother is just as annoying __________________ Last edited by Peachy Mary; Jun 4th, 2008 at 06:32 AM.

Jun 4th, 2008, 04:28 AM	#2
Smokehouse Member	I wanted to create another account, but that would mean I'd have to build my feedback up again.

Jun 4th, 2008, 04:32 AM	#3
flychinadoll Member Location: Bay Area	How do you know she checks it? She told you?

Jun 4th, 2008, 05:06 AM	#6
Smokehouse Member	I should start putting up sex toys and penis enlargers. Maybe that'll teach her not to look. I cannot begin to tell you how irritated I am right now.

Jun 4th, 2008, 10:34 AM	#11
SOLIDGOLD2 Member	i would be so annoyed. I would just tell her bluntly its not her business what you sell and to mind her business

Jun 4th, 2008, 10:40 AM	#12
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Jun 4th, 2008, 10:41 AM	#13
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Jun 4th, 2008, 10:41 AM	#14
candypants1100 Member Location: candyland	that's so annoying.

Jun 4th, 2008, 10:43 AM	#15
mmmsc Delta Dog Location: Mississippi USA	Can you change the account so you have one buyer acct and one seller account? And then build up FB on the new one and eventually drop the old account??? That is too annoying. There must be some smart way to get around her snoopiness!