Shall I leave a Neg??

moi et mes sacs · Apr 30th, 2008, 07:18 PM

I dont know what to do. I recently had a difficult buyer, you may have read my thread, who insisted my bag was afake as I could not offer a receipt.
I refused to sell to her and she made my life very difficult by ' accidentally ' clicking on the wrong button to mutually withdraw etc.
She has had two negs in the last week from others for non payment and her score is down to 91%.
I have decided not to leave any feedback. But I am worried. She hasnt left any feedback for me or anyone recently and I am worried she might be waiting until we cant leave her a neg.,
I didnt leave one as I am quite sure she will retaliate and ruin my 100%. But if she leaves one neg and I cant leave one back, we wont be able to withdraw. Any ideas??

starryeyedjenn · Apr 30th, 2008, 07:21 PM

if i were you, i might just risk leaving her neg feedback before time runs out and she leaves you one. it will ruin your 100% but you can respond to her neg feedback as well. it'll show other potential buyers that there was a problem and it was her fault. better that than her leaving you neg feedback without giving you the chance to do so. if that happened, then potential buyers would just see that as a bad mark against you.

whenever a seller has negative feedback, i look for it and try to see what happened through the feedback communication.

moi et mes sacs · Apr 30th, 2008, 07:23 PM

Does anybody know, will mutual withdrawal no longer be there with new rules?

RichBabyBentley · Apr 30th, 2008, 07:28 PM

feedback is backdated so any transactions before the feedback switch will be fine to still leave negs for...

RichBabyBentley · Apr 30th, 2008, 07:28 PM

isnt* sorry lol

moi et mes sacs · Apr 30th, 2008, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by RichBabyBentley

feedback is backdated so any transactions before the feedback switch will be fine to still leave negs for...

Sorry I didnt understand. Will it be backdated? Also I cant find which date it is effective from....

RichBabyBentley · Apr 30th, 2008, 07:38 PM

it wont be backdated..i think it might be the 15th may

moi et mes sacs · Apr 30th, 2008, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by RichBabyBentley

it wont be backdated..i think it might be the 15th may

Thanks, I have time to think about it. Hopefully she will be suspended by then. She is getting negs most days of the week!

chipmunk-pnw · May 1st, 2008, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by RichBabyBentley

it wont be backdated..i think it might be the 15th may

Not 1st May? Why then are ebayers striking on 1 May?

Varied_obsessions · May 1st, 2008, 08:09 AM

I'd leave her a negative if she retaliates, then you can at least fight it. Looks like she'll be gone before to long though.

moi et mes sacs · May 1st, 2008, 09:34 AM

Still thinking about it. I have never given a neg. Scary territory..

Varied_obsessions · May 1st, 2008, 09:54 AM

^^ yeah it is. I totally understand, but she might be waiting until you'll have no recourse with feedback after the change. She'll be able to neg you and nothing can be done about it. I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with this nut. *sends positive vibes your way*

kimalee · May 1st, 2008, 10:28 AM

you really have to decide if you think it's worth getting a positive negative for...if so, then I'd leave the neg!

evolkatie · May 1st, 2008, 11:24 AM

wouldnt she get booted for having 3 npb's?

Apr 30th, 2008, 07:18 PM	#1
moi et mes sacs Science Geek!	Shall I leave a Neg?? I dont know what to do. I recently had a difficult buyer, you may have read my thread, who insisted my bag was afake as I could not offer a receipt. I refused to sell to her and she made my life very difficult by ' accidentally ' clicking on the wrong button to mutually withdraw etc. She has had two negs in the last week from others for non payment and her score is down to 91%. I have decided not to leave any feedback. But I am worried. She hasnt left any feedback for me or anyone recently and I am worried she might be waiting until we cant leave her a neg., I didnt leave one as I am quite sure she will retaliate and ruin my 100%. But if she leaves one neg and I cant leave one back, we wont be able to withdraw. Any ideas?? __________________ If you never change your mind, why have one? Edward de Bono

Apr 30th, 2008, 07:21 PM	#2
starryeyedjenn Member Location: Los Angeles	Re: Shall I leave a Neg?? if i were you, i might just risk leaving her neg feedback before time runs out and she leaves you one. it will ruin your 100% but you can respond to her neg feedback as well. it'll show other potential buyers that there was a problem and it was her fault. better that than her leaving you neg feedback without giving you the chance to do so. if that happened, then potential buyers would just see that as a bad mark against you. whenever a seller has negative feedback, i look for it and try to see what happened through the feedback communication. __________________ :: i'm always dreaming of couture ::

Apr 30th, 2008, 07:23 PM	#3
moi et mes sacs Science Geek!	Re: Shall I leave a Neg?? Does anybody know, will mutual withdrawal no longer be there with new rules? __________________ If you never change your mind, why have one? Edward de Bono

Apr 30th, 2008, 07:28 PM	#4
RichBabyBentley Member Location: Devon, Uk	Re: Shall I leave a Neg?? feedback is backdated so any transactions before the feedback switch will be fine to still leave negs for... __________________ <a href="

Apr 30th, 2008, 07:28 PM	#5
RichBabyBentley Member Location: Devon, Uk	Re: Shall I leave a Neg?? isnt* sorry lol __________________ <a href="

Apr 30th, 2008, 07:38 PM	#7
RichBabyBentley Member Location: Devon, Uk	Re: Shall I leave a Neg?? it wont be backdated..i think it might be the 15th may __________________ <a href="

May 1st, 2008, 08:09 AM	#10
Varied_obsessions She's buggin again	Re: Shall I leave a Neg?? I'd leave her a negative if she retaliates, then you can at least fight it. Looks like she'll be gone before to long though. __________________

May 1st, 2008, 09:34 AM	#11
moi et mes sacs Science Geek!	Re: Shall I leave a Neg?? Still thinking about it. I have never given a neg. Scary territory.. __________________ If you never change your mind, why have one? Edward de Bono

May 1st, 2008, 09:54 AM	#12
Varied_obsessions She's buggin again	Re: Shall I leave a Neg?? ^^ yeah it is. I totally understand, but she might be waiting until you'll have no recourse with feedback after the change. She'll be able to neg you and nothing can be done about it. I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with this nut. sends positive vibes your way __________________

May 1st, 2008, 10:28 AM	#13
kimalee cinder & smoke Location: CA/MA	Re: Shall I leave a Neg?? you really have to decide if you think it's worth getting a positive negative for...if so, then I'd leave the neg! __________________ There's treasure everywhere! kimalee's wishlist RM Navy Nikki RM Chocolate Nikki LV Tate PM Proud Member of the "Nikkilette 10"

May 1st, 2008, 11:24 AM	#14
evolkatie Member Location: USA	Re: Shall I leave a Neg?? wouldnt she get booted for having 3 npb's? __________________ My CL Collection Total Ban Dec 1 - May 31 Eeek!! I'm only allowed Patent Rolandos