My goodness! What an interesting turn of events! I'm shocked but sadly, more disappointed in the actions of tPF members.
Friendojolie, I hope I'm not out of line here, but I can't help but believe that you're aware of what transpired on the ebay boards yesterday as a direct result of this post and the doings of a friend of your's. I'm really disappointed in the lack of ethics shown by you and your friend.
Even after your bags were returned to you, your "friend" committed auction interference and malicious bidding in order to leave your consignor a negative feedback. And in fact, that neg was removed only after the "buyer" was outed (along with several other of his IDs) and was shamed into revising the feedback.
You picked your consignor (presumably) because of her fantastic reputation. Good sellers don't earn that reputation by ignoring clients and shirking their responsibilities.
First, I think you're being a little unrealistic in expecting your items to be picked up, photographed and listed within hours or days of receipt. (For my own listings, each listing takes a good hour from start to finish as far as photographing, editing, hosting, writing the description, etc.) I don't know how many bags you sent her, but you probably weren't her only consignee so she had other work to do. And lets not forget real-life responsiblity like family, shopping, cooking, cleaning, etc.
Whether you were aware of her dad's illness is irrelevant. Your expectations weren't realistic, and when she told you of her concerns with the new ebay policy, I'd have thought you'd be especially understanding since you wouldn't want to risk losing your own items.
But instead your post encouraged the ebay activity discussed in the following thread from the shoes, purses and accessories forum. Even if you didn't directly ask your "friend" to do this, your silence offered tacit approval. And your lack of response on that thread further tells me, at least, that you are/were aware. This is shameful and in my ever-so-humble opinion, your ebay accounts as well as those discussed on ebay should be permanently naru.
http://forums.ebay.com/db2/topic/Sho...26213&start=50