HELP ..Something fishy or am i just paranoid?

RichBabyBentley · Jun 21st, 2008, 07:43 PM

Hi guys
I bought a LV speedy about 10 days ago The sellers feedback was fairly ok..and she was helpful enough before auction ended...after It did she emailed me a few time and i was under the impression she no longer wanted to sell it...and way about 2 days ago i get a NPB after conversating in that she said she thought i was no longer interested and if i was to pay for it she promised to ship express USA TO UK on friday,I emailed her last night and she said she would ship tomorrow..saturday (now today)
I went on to find the NPB dispute and asked her had she shipped today as im going away next week,and when i pressed enter Realised I had agreed to a mutual

VERY VERY SILLY ME!....the transaction itself is still going through and i now see she filed this a few hours ago 3 days after she recieved payment (so that in itself i find very very fishy n sneeky)
Shes not bothered replying at all since last night
I have just made contact with eBay live help but they are as useless as ever..they recommend to contact seller and if no reponse paypal claim...What do you guys reckon

geniepr · Jun 21st, 2008, 07:49 PM

Just because you agreed in the dispute doesn't mean she can get away of the transaction, she still have your payment, therefore she have to send the bag. Good Luck and don't panic.

RichBabyBentley · Jun 21st, 2008, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by geniepr

Just because you agreed in the dispute doesn't mean she can get away of the transaction, she still have your payment, therefore she have to send the bag. Good Luck and don't panic.

Thanks Genie how long should i give her...i guess im just panicking because she has gained no feedback for 8 transactions from over 10 days ago...and I do not want to give her time to transfer my funds and empty her paypal

geniepr · Jun 21st, 2008, 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by RichBabyBentley

Thanks Genie how long should i give her...i guess im just panicking because she has gained no feedback for 8 transactions from over 10 days ago...and I do not want to give her time to transfer my funds and empty her paypal

I guess tracking # at least 7 days after your payment was sent is fair enough. If no response by then open a dispute as item not received.

chloehandbags · Jun 22nd, 2008, 03:58 AM

So, you've paid and she's reported you as a NPB?

I didn't even know a seller could report a buyer as a NPB, if the buyer had already paid?

I think that's very worrying...

Well, she either has to refund you, or send you the bag.

If she does neither, I'd file a dispute as soon as I possibly could.

ETA: Or is it that you have paid and then agreed to a mutual cancellation (by accident)?

If that is the case, don't you just get refunded automatically? I'm pretty sure I did when something was lost in the mail (as it turned out, it wasn't actually lost and I repaid the seller, but that's another story!); but I could be wrong.

RichBabyBentley · Jun 22nd, 2008, 06:15 AM

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Originally Posted by chloehandbags

So, you've paid and she's reported you as a NPB?

I didn't even know a seller could report a buyer as a NPB, if the buyer had already paid?

I think that's very worrying...

Well, she either has to refund you, or send you the bag.

If she does neither, I'd file a dispute as soon as I possibly could.

ETA: Or is it that you have paid and then agreed to a mutual cancellation (by accident)?

If that is the case, don't you just get refunded automatically? I'm pretty sure I did when something was lost in the mail (as it turned out, it wasn't actually lost and I repaid the seller, but that's another story!); but I could be wrong.

Still no reply and she listed other things over night

she filed a mutual after payment was sent and i dont think it was by accident because I see in the dispute she has wrote agree to the mutual

geniepr · Jun 22nd, 2008, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by RichBabyBentley

Still no reply and she listed other things over night

she filed a mutual after payment was sent and i dont think it was by accident because I see in the dispute she has wrote agree to the mutual

By your first post I understand.

1. You bought item, and after emails from sellers you didn't pay because you though she didn't wanted to sell.

2. She filed NPB on Thursday to mutually withdraw the transaction but she gave you the option to pay.

3. After that, You decided to pay and she said she was going to mailed on Saturday.

4. Saturday you went to the dispute ask about status but instead of clicking to post your message, you made a mistake and closed and agreed to a withdraw.

I really don't see how the seller did something wrong other than not giving you tracking yesterday. Take a deep breath and give her a chance, she was going to post Saturday (yesterday) but you never know if something happend and she couldn't make it to the PO on time. Relax

geniepr · Jun 22nd, 2008, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by chloehandbags

So, you've paid and she's reported you as a NPB?

I didn't even know a seller could report a buyer as a NPB, if the buyer had already paid?

I think that's very worrying...

Well, she either has to refund you, or send you the bag.

If she does neither, I'd file a dispute as soon as I possibly could.

ETA: Or is it that you have paid and then agreed to a mutual cancellation (by accident)?

If that is the case, don't you just get refunded automatically? I'm pretty sure I did when something was lost in the mail (as it turned out, it wasn't actually lost and I repaid the seller, but that's another story!); but I could be wrong.

I think it was the other way around, Seller filed NPB and then buyer decided to pay.

"i get a NPB after conversating in that, she said she thought i was no longer interested and if i was to pay for it she promised to ship express USA TO UK on friday"

RichBabyBentley · Jun 22nd, 2008, 12:51 PM

Hi genie..
she filed a npb even though i send over 11 emails asking about the bag and could she let me know either way she said sorry she thought i was ignoring her emails as i was a npb (even though all were sent through my eBay) then 2days after payment she has filed the mutual

geniepr · Jun 22nd, 2008, 01:00 PM

Oh, I see. When did you sent payment? Try emailing her tomorrow Monday, and if she don't respond with a tracking by Tuesday file a claim with PayPal just in case. By the way with a mutual you don't gt an NPB strike, too bad the seller gets the fees back. Other than that the agreement with the payment in PayPal is still valid unless she refunds your money. So for now She HAVE to send the bag to you even when the agreement was reached.

jjyounger · Jun 22nd, 2008, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by geniepr

By your first post I understand.

1. You bought item, and after emails from sellers you didn't pay because you though she didn't wanted to sell.

2. She filed NPB on Thursday to mutually withdraw the transaction but she gave you the option to pay.

3. After that, You decided to pay and she said she was going to mailed on Saturday.

4. Saturday you went to the dispute ask about status but instead of clicking to post your message, you made a mistake and closed and agreed to a withdraw.

I really don't see how the seller did something wrong other than not giving you tracking yesterday. Take a deep breath and give her a chance, she was going to post Saturday (yesterday) but you never know if something happend and she couldn't make it to the PO on time. Relax

I agree. She has your payment, and I think she will ship to you. I don't blame buyers for being confused when sellers refuse to communicate with them or check their emails. Good luck!

Regina07 · Jun 22nd, 2008, 01:02 PM

I'd file a dispute with paypal immediately and have her send you & paypal the tracking number. If you're concerned that she'll empty her account and keep your money, then don't give her the time to do it.

I also wouldn't close the dispute until item received just to be sure you're getting what you paid for.

RichBabyBentley · Jun 22nd, 2008, 05:13 PM

shes just recieved a neg from a buyer of a chanel bag....Seller didnot honor auction 4 no reason.Refuse 2 sell. Waste my time. poor comm

jjyounger · Jun 22nd, 2008, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by RichBabyBentley

shes just recieved a neg from a buyer of a chanel bag....Seller didnot honor auction 4 no reason.Refuse 2 sell. Waste my time. poor comm

Well, there's your answer. File an "Item Not Received" dispute immediately, RBB.

chloehandbags · Jun 23rd, 2008, 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by RichBabyBentley

Still no reply and she listed other things over night

she filed a mutual after payment was sent and i dont think it was by accident because I see in the dispute she has wrote agree to the mutual

Oh dear...

Definitely file a dispute ASAP, then.

Jun 21st, 2008, 07:43 PM	#1
RichBabyBentley Member Location: Devon, Uk	HELP ..Something fishy or am i just paranoid? Hi guys I bought a LV speedy about 10 days ago The sellers feedback was fairly ok..and she was helpful enough before auction ended...after It did she emailed me a few time and i was under the impression she no longer wanted to sell it...and way about 2 days ago i get a NPB after conversating in that she said she thought i was no longer interested and if i was to pay for it she promised to ship express USA TO UK on friday,I emailed her last night and she said she would ship tomorrow..saturday (now today) I went on to find the NPB dispute and asked her had she shipped today as im going away next week,and when i pressed enter Realised I had agreed to a mutual VERY VERY SILLY ME!....the transaction itself is still going through and i now see she filed this a few hours ago 3 days after she recieved payment (so that in itself i find very very fishy n sneeky) Shes not bothered replying at all since last night I have just made contact with eBay live help but they are as useless as ever..they recommend to contact seller and if no reponse paypal claim...What do you guys reckon __________________ <a href=" Last edited by RichBabyBentley; Jun 21st, 2008 at 07:44 PM. Reason: error

Jun 21st, 2008, 07:49 PM	#2
geniepr Member	Just because you agreed in the dispute doesn't mean she can get away of the transaction, she still have your payment, therefore she have to send the bag. Good Luck and don't panic. __________________

Jun 22nd, 2008, 03:58 AM	#5
chloehandbags Sofa King Sherlock Location: Hertfordshire, UK.	So, you've paid and she's reported you as a NPB? I didn't even know a seller could report a buyer as a NPB, if the buyer had already paid? I think that's very worrying... Well, she either has to refund you, or send you the bag. If she does neither, I'd file a dispute as soon as I possibly could. ETA: Or is it that you have paid and then agreed to a mutual cancellation (by accident)? If that is the case, don't you just get refunded automatically? I'm pretty sure I did when something was lost in the mail (as it turned out, it wasn't actually lost and I repaid the seller, but that's another story!); but I could be wrong. __________________ Still missing Phoebe... 'My boss, Ralph Toledano [president of Chloé], always says to me that people come to buy at Chloé for what it is, so it does not make sense to order a Chinese and get delivered an Indian!' - Phoebe Philo, May 2005. Last edited by chloehandbags; Jun 22nd, 2008 at 04:07 AM.

Jun 22nd, 2008, 12:51 PM	#9
RichBabyBentley Member Location: Devon, Uk	Hi genie.. she filed a npb even though i send over 11 emails asking about the bag and could she let me know either way she said sorry she thought i was ignoring her emails as i was a npb (even though all were sent through my eBay) then 2days after payment she has filed the mutual __________________ <a href="

Jun 22nd, 2008, 01:00 PM	#10
geniepr Member	Oh, I see. When did you sent payment? Try emailing her tomorrow Monday, and if she don't respond with a tracking by Tuesday file a claim with PayPal just in case. By the way with a mutual you don't gt an NPB strike, too bad the seller gets the fees back. Other than that the agreement with the payment in PayPal is still valid unless she refunds your money. So for now She HAVE to send the bag to you even when the agreement was reached. __________________

Jun 22nd, 2008, 01:02 PM	#12
Regina07 Member Location: Los Angeles California	I'd file a dispute with paypal immediately and have her send you & paypal the tracking number. If you're concerned that she'll empty her account and keep your money, then don't give her the time to do it. I also wouldn't close the dispute until item received just to be sure you're getting what you paid for. __________________ Wishlist: Chanel reissue 227 - bordeaux [ ] Chanel XL jumbo - Beige w/Gold hw [ ] Chanel mini flap - White w/Gold hw [ ] YSL OS Muse - 06 Burgundy [ ]

Jun 22nd, 2008, 05:13 PM	#13
RichBabyBentley Member Location: Devon, Uk	shes just recieved a neg from a buyer of a chanel bag....Seller didnot honor auction 4 no reason.Refuse 2 sell. Waste my time. poor comm __________________ <a href="