Thanks for your replies. I have a few purchases that I've asked the seller to lower the value. I know I'm guilty in doing this but essentially I shop online to get a deal and by the time customs hit, it's even more expensive than retail. I would choose to buy retail here but the selection we have here in Canada is quite limited. We only have Holt Renfrew or The Room to shop for

I really wanted this Chloe bag and it was never available here so I was excited to get it. I still want the bag but the seller is unresponsive to my messages and she still cannot provide me with tracking number. I have tried opening a case on paypal and was told I couldn't because I've already opened one on eBay. I called eBay today and got scolded by a rep and was repeatedly told that they cannot help me and they pretty much left me to cut off my own arm.
I know I'm wrong to ask her to lower the value but I'm sure most people have done this too... at the end of the day we're all trying to help out each other right? But the matter that distraught me is the fact the she doesn't have proof of shipment and they sided her. Who knows if she had sent the bag to begin with or if she had sent me a fake one in the mail? I got a message from the seller when I opened the case and all she said was she shipped the bag with USPS and it's help up in US customs... Why would it be flagged down in the USA before it has even left for Canada?