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chloehandbags · Oct 21st, 2009, 02:02 AM

^ Yes, I was going to ask when all this positive fb was left?

As, if most of it's quite recent, sellers haven't been able to leave buyers negs for the last year (is it a year, yet? I can't remember), or so, of course.

I think I'd probably have about that fb score and 100% positive fb, had I always left positive fb for all sellers, however bad (as opposed to not leaving fb, quite often and leaving the very occasional neg); as my only neg was a retaliatory one.

So, even when sellers still could leave negs, having a high, perfect fb score, as a buyer, often had far more to do with how tolerant one was of bad sellers, than how great a buyer one is/was, IMHO.

jhazn85 · Oct 21st, 2009, 12:26 PM

ugh. all i can say is he got TWO MORE positive feedback as of yesterday when i started this thread, saying how he pays instantly.

still no response to my messages.

karmenzsofia · Oct 21st, 2009, 12:47 PM

strange...

jhazn85 · Oct 21st, 2009, 02:38 PM

tell me about it. i wonder if anyone else on TPF has experience with this guy.

jhazn85 · Oct 21st, 2009, 03:34 PM

Originally Posted by chloehandbags

^ Yes, I was going to ask when all this positive fb was left?

As, if most of it's quite recent, sellers haven't been able to leave buyers negs for the last year (is it a year, yet? I can't remember), or so, of course.

I think I'd probably have about that fb score and 100% positive fb, had I always left positive fb for all sellers, however bad (as opposed to not leaving fb, quite often and leaving the very occasional neg); as my only neg was a retaliatory one.

So, even when sellers still could leave negs, having a high, perfect fb score, as a buyer, often had far more to do with how tolerant one was of bad sellers, than how great a buyer one is/was, IMHO.

All of the positive feedback was left in the last year....ugh. I actually went through all of his 229 positive feedback and did in fact find a few that were negative, about how he never responded and just disappeared. I wish I had read that beforehand.

pegasuscom · Oct 21st, 2009, 04:30 PM

Have you checked his completed listings by bidder to see if he purchased an identical or similar item to yours for less money? Sometimes buyers bid on multiple identical or similar items to ensure they get the absolute lowest price and then they stiff the other sellers. Although that is against *bay "rules", I think at best they may get a tiny slap on the wrist.

jhazn85 · Oct 21st, 2009, 05:06 PM

he's actually bought 10+ pairs of women's sunglasses in the last 30 days. it's the strangest thing.

i JUST got a response from him. he said he's in the hospital and he will pay me tomorrow. i will give him the benefit of the doubt...

although, really?? i don't know if i believe him but i won't be mean in case it's true.

jhazn85 · Oct 21st, 2009, 09:06 PM

HE PAID!

as usual you guys were right

thanks so much for being patient with me!

Oct 21st, 2009, 02:02 AM	#16
chloehandbags KIABGGTH Joined: Mar 2006 Location: England, UK. Posts: 11,248	^ Yes, I was going to ask when all this positive fb was left? As, if most of it's quite recent, sellers haven't been able to leave buyers negs for the last year (is it a year, yet? I can't remember), or so, of course. I think I'd probably have about that fb score and 100% positive fb, had I always left positive fb for all sellers, however bad (as opposed to not leaving fb, quite often and leaving the very occasional neg); as my only neg was a retaliatory one. So, even when sellers still could leave negs, having a high, perfect fb score, as a buyer, often had far more to do with how tolerant one was of bad sellers, than how great a buyer one is/was, IMHO.
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Oct 21st, 2009, 12:47 PM	#18
karmenzsofia Life is Plan Z Joined: Jun 2008 Location: Tarot Card Posts: 14,888	strange...
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Oct 21st, 2009, 04:30 PM	#21
pegasuscom Member Joined: Apr 2008 Location: Horse Country Posts: 1,606	Have you checked his completed listings by bidder to see if he purchased an identical or similar item to yours for less money? Sometimes buyers bid on multiple identical or similar items to ensure they get the absolute lowest price and then they stiff the other sellers. Although that is against *bay "rules", I think at best they may get a tiny slap on the wrist.
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Oct 21st, 2009, 12:26 PM	#17
jhazn85 OP Member Joined: Jan 2007 Location: New York Posts: 539	ugh. all i can say is he got TWO MORE positive feedback as of yesterday when i started this thread, saying how he pays instantly. still no response to my messages.

Oct 21st, 2009, 02:38 PM	#19
jhazn85 OP Member Joined: Jan 2007 Location: New York Posts: 539	tell me about it. i wonder if anyone else on TPF has experience with this guy.

Oct 21st, 2009, 05:06 PM	#22
jhazn85 OP Member Joined: Jan 2007 Location: New York Posts: 539	he's actually bought 10+ pairs of women's sunglasses in the last 30 days. it's the strangest thing. i JUST got a response from him. he said he's in the hospital and he will pay me tomorrow. i will give him the benefit of the doubt... although, really?? i don't know if i believe him but i won't be mean in case it's true.

Oct 21st, 2009, 09:06 PM	#23
jhazn85 OP Member Joined: Jan 2007 Location: New York Posts: 539	HE PAID! as usual you guys were right thanks so much for being patient with me!

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