Kirsten Dunst | Interview
The actor talks stardom and her own struggles with Melancholia. By Ben Kenigsberg
n a much-YouTubed press conference at this year’s Cannes Film Festival, Kirsten Dunst was visibly appalled when her director, Lars von Trier, launched into a rambling joke in which he claimed to “understand Hitler.” Dunst went on to win a festival prize for the film, Melancholia, and if there are any signs of lingering resentment, she doesn’t show them. When we meet at the recent Toronto International Film Festival, the 29-year-old Spider-Man star—wearing a cowgirl blouse and jeans—seems to have put the incident (and her own experiences with depression) behind her.
Are film festivals traumatic for you now?
I’ve had a few interesting Cannes experiences, so I’m used to it, and Lars doesn’t fly anywhere, so he can’t do press in the United States. He doesn’t fly, so we’re saved on this one.
You almost had to expect he would say something crazy. Before the Nazi remarks, he said his next film would be a four-hour porno starring you.
I didn’t know what to expect. We were doing a press conference—it’s very normal. He says stuff and he’s usually really funny, but it took a very dark turn. I was pretty shocked.
You’ve said your own experience with depression helped you understand the character of Justine, but what you went through [Dunst checked into rehab for depression in 2008] seems very different.
Lars was very vulnerable about his depression and what he’s been through, and this film is about that, and I think most people, most humans, go through some sort of depression in their life. The scripts that speak to you are things you can infuse with all of yourself, and so to me, I knew how to portray this.
You also said it’s a difficult thing to portray onscreen.
It is because it can be boring. When people are depressed, you sleep a lot. It’s hard to make that cinematic and interesting, when someone’s not doing anything, but have an anxiety feeling underneath the whole thing, and to smile but have those glazed-over, out-of-it eyes. That was a big thing for Lars, what that looks like. He’s so vulnerable with his actors, he shares a lot, so immediately you feel free and you trust him.
Justine’s expected to be the center of attention at her wedding. It seems there’s a similarly ritual aspect to movie stardom, like coming to film festivals.
I’m not someone who feels the pressure of someone else’s expectations. That’s a very young way to feel. It’s weird doing red carpets, it’s uncomfortable. But you can have a sense of humor about it. Cannes’s red carpet is intense—that’s a lot of people shouting at you from both sides. It’s kind of emotional in an overwhelming way, but Toronto is mellow.
You’re known for being private; you live in New York, not Hollywood.
I love L.A. I lived in the San Fernando Valley for a long time. I’m going back there for four months soon for the holidays to be with my family. You do live more anonymously in New York. People don’t care that you’re an actor. The photographers there stay far away when they take your picture. They know I don’t like it, so they usually just leave me alone. I just didn’t want to live in a house by myself in L.A. I did that when I was younger and I didn’t have…like, if you don’t have a guy around to help you with things.
How has your perspective changed since you were a child actor?
When I was younger, I always did movies that teenagers would watch, not adults. I did Crazy/Beautiful or comedies like Bring It On. A lot of people my age, they grew up with me onscreen. I think that’s helped keep a certain amount of longevity. When you grow up with a person, you feel like you know them. The guy who drove me here in Toronto was like, “I love Jumanji.” Your fans grow up with you.
Lars has a reputation for being cruel to his women protagonists.
I know. If someone was cruel to me, I’d shut down. Cruel—that’s a heavy word. Cruel to someone? I never saw that from him, and if I ever worked with someone like that, I’d emotionally shut down. I don’t think you get anyone to perform or be open if you’re not open with them as well and if they don’t trust you. Then you’re just going to get a really angry performance. If someone was mean to me, I would just walk off the set.
Having a fractious parental dynamic—
Me? Oh, in the script.
Well, in the script, but your parents separated when you were relatively young.
Whose parents haven’t? I was actually well-adjusted about it. But yeah, those parents in the movie were terrible to her at the wedding.
When you watch the film, how do you react?
It gave me anxiety, but I think because I’m watching myself for two hours. When I first saw it and the ending came and the sound was really loud, I looked over at my friend and started laughing. It really surprised me how loud it was. It shook the seats.
Melancholia plays at the Chicago International Film Festival October 7 and will be available on demand the same day.
Melancholia won her an award at Cannes – and plunged her into controversy. The actor talks about Von Trier's Nazi moment, her battle with depression – and Charlotte Gainsbourg's breasts
Kirsten Dunst's working relationship with Lars von Trier turned into a rollercoaster ride. Photograph: Eyevine/Redux
Melancholia begins with a wedding and ends with a funeral. Actually, the new film from Danish provocateur Lars von Trier ends with the apocalypse – a funeral for everyone, as a vast planet rears up on the near horizon, lighting up the lawn and setting the birds chattering. Watching the movie at this year's Cannes film festival, Kirsten Dunst was surprised to find herself giggling, as if this was some sort of happy ending. "That's one thing you can say for the end of the world," she says. "It solves a lot of problems."
We're drinking coffee in the basement of a London hotel, with embroidered snowflakes on the wallpaper and an Indian summer raging outside. The actor is attired as though for a night on the town – sheer black dress, jingling silver bracelet – even though it's mid-morning and she has yet to eat breakfast. She confesses that she keeps staring at the snowflakes, her eyes glazing over, her mind zoning out. At lunchtime, she is due to board a flight home to New York, after which she has a clean slate for the rest of the year. You get the impression she can't wait to put 2011 behind her.
Certainly, Melancholia has been a torrid passage for its 29-year-old star: a typical Von Trier rollercoaster that places soaring triumph cheek-by-jowl with low-comedy disaster. On the upside is Dunst's performance, a role that is worlds away from the studio fluff that has taken too much of her recent energies. She plays Justine, the brilliant, dark-eyed manic-depressive heroine, who stumbles through the worst wedding ceremony this side of Festen and then belatedly comes into her own as judgment day looms. It's a devastating performance, and one that won her a deserved best actress prize at Cannes.
And yet, for all that, the film risked being upstaged by the press conference that followed its screening. Riffing off a question about his German roots and his interest in "the Nazi aesthetic", Von Trier joked that he was a Nazi and that he "understood Hitler". Within hours the story had gone viral, prompting the Cannes organisers to expel Von Trier from the Croisette. The defining image from this year's festival may have been the sight of a stricken Dunst at the director's side, clutching her throat in anguish.
She winces at the memory. "Well yeah, you could see my face. I was choking, because I'm watching a friend having a meltdown. And what he's saying is horrendous in a roomful of press. He was asked an inappropriate question [about his family] and his response was to make a joke about it. But no one laughed and he just kept unravelling."
'I was the one who stopped Lars'
The way she sees it, the incident was a perfect storm of unstable elements, with her caught haplessly in the middle. She blames the journalist, the British film critic Kate Muir, who opened the floodgate – and the floodgate itself for opening so readily ("Lars always likes to stir things up"). But she also seems narked with her other cast members, who simply sat by. "That's what I don't understand. There were a lot of us sitting there. There was Stellan [Skarsgård], John [Hurt], Charlotte [Gainsbourg]. And no one said something. No one wanted to help. I was the only one to lean in to Lars and get him to stop." She rolls her eyes. "And, of course, I'm the one person that people would love to rope into that situation. They'd love to mess with me."
Why? Because she's a Hollywood star? "Right! So then I become the story. It becomes, 'Oooh, look at Kirsten's reaction!'"
Presumably this is the hazard for any big-name actor who works with Von Trier. The man has a reputation for putting his performers in compromising positions, both on and off the screen – and when that performer is the American sweetheart from Spider-Man, Bring It On and Mona Lisa Smile, it only ups the ante. I tell Dunst that I want to read her a quote from that day's Guardian. It's from an interview with Paul Bettany, who worked with Dunst on the duff romcom Wimbledon, but who also had a starring role in Von Trier's Dogville back in 2003.
"Oh, I know," Dunst interrupts, mid-sip. "I love Paul, but I know he hates Lars." The quote suggests that Dogville was a nightmare to make. Von Trier, says Bettany, has no interest in letting the actor be a part of the process. They are merely his puppets.
"Wow," she says. "They must really have hated each other." She insists that her experience was nothing like that. "I've felt like a puppet on films before and have been really frustrated and angry. I mean, Lars might see himself as some master manipulator, but that's not how he comes across. I mean, most of the scenes were improvised and he doesn't even say much. How can that make me his puppet?"
Look, she says: she agreed to make Melancholia because she loved the script. It's not as if he had asked her to make Antichrist, the director's previous film, in which Charlotte Gainsbourg played a bereaved mother who mutilates her own genitals. "That kind of film is harder for someone like me to get away with. I'm more in the public eye than Charlotte." She pauses to reconsider. "It's something about Charlotte's body, too. You couldn't have someone like me, with big breasts, in that film. Charlotte's thin and her breasts are small and that's easier to watch somehow. For someone like me to do that film – it would almost be ridiculously shocking."
Or could it be that our sense of Dunst is partly conditioned by her previous incarnations? She has, after all, been a Hollywood star since infancy. She made her screen debut at the age of eight, playing alongside Woody Allen in New York Stories, and then popped up as Tom Hanks's daughter in the 1990 adaptation of The Bonfire of the Vanities. But her breakthrough came a few years later, courtesy of Interview With the Vampire. Her turn as Claudia, the bonsai bloodsucker with the adorable ringlets and burning eyes, stole the film from Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt.
It was, she recalls, fun to make. "It never felt like work, that's for sure. Brad and Tom treated me like their little sister, their little princess. But I think children handle things better than adults. As an adult, you get insecure. You're tired, you're worried about how you look and what it all means. When you're a kid, you just think, 'Oh, I like my dress. Let's go and play!'" She shrugs. "Plus I had nothing to lose. People aren't going to tear down a 12-year-old kid."
Life has inevitably grown more complicated since then. In 2008, suffering from depression, Dunst briefly checked into the Cirque Lodge centre in Utah. According to Von Trier, this experience was crucial in her interpretation of Justine, whose pristine, successful exterior is but the sugar-coating on a core of pitch-black misery. "She's one hell of an actress," the director has said. "She is much more nuanced than I thought and she has the advantage of having had a depression of her own. All sensible people have."
One apartment, one bedroom
Dunst gropes for the coffee. Yeah, she says. But it's a difficult issue for her. On the one hand, she doesn't want depression to be seen as a stigma, hidden away in the shadows. On the other, it's private. "I'm not comfortable discussing it, even with people I know."
To casual onlookers, Dunst is someone who appears to have it all. So is the stigma different when it affects a Hollywood movie star? Is it worse? "It's something human beings go through, regardless of who they are. And yeah, I have a good job and people like to build me up as having a certain lifestyle. But I've got a pretty good head on my shoulders. I support my family and I'm careful with money. I have one apartment in New York, it's got one bedroom." She plucks at her bracelet. "This is borrowed." She plucks at her dress. "This is borrowed. So it's not like I'm living this crazy life with town cars and buying myself jewellery."
She stares at the snowflakes. "But OK, we got kind of off the subject there. Depression can happen to anyone, obviously. And it's different for everyone. But I guess I'm just trying to divert the conversation."
Time is up. She's all set to fly home, escaping Melancholia's orbit for good. She has another job lined up for January, but until then she's free. She wants to read; she'd like to write. At some stage, she'd like to move into producing. For the next three months, however, the priority is home and hearth. "I'm going to chill with my family. I'm planning to stay with my mom and my grandmother. And my cousin's living there, too, at the moment. So it's basically a lot of women in a house and we sit around and watch Jeopardy."
Still living dangerously, then? "Oh yeah," says Dunst. "You can never get enough of Jeopardy."
Production year: 2011
Country: Rest of the world
Cert (UK): 15
Runtime: 130 mins
Directors: Lars von Trier
Cast: Alexander Skarsgard, Brady Corbet, Charlotte Gainsbourg, Charlotte Rampling, John Hurt, Kiefer Sutherland, Kirsten Dunst, Stellan Skarsgard
Tiny how? Short? Skinny? I love that black dress on her. And Alexander looks great in that suit!
Tiny as in skinny. As if she'd fall over with the slightest push! I guess the saying of cameras adding on 10 lbs is true. She's not very tall either, maybe 5'5-6 at most? But she was gorgeous! My photos won't attach because they're too big unfortunately :-(
I love her. I think she's handled her personal issues with a lot of grace that others (waves at La Lohan) should take note of. And she's really come back with a vengeance in Lars von Trier's "Melancholia". She's really amazing in that film.
Attending the "Cafe Society" premiere and the Opening Night Gala during the 69th annual Cannes Film Festival at the Palais des Festivals on May 11, 2016 in Cannes, France.
Wearing a Gucci dress / Chopard jewellery.