Thanks all for your input

I agree, poopsie, that it's partly that the black/brass doesn't really *POP* especially like the rose gold versions I've seen. But then again, not sure I could really carry off that much POP!
I could return for store credit, but really there is not much else at Aloha Rag that really grabs my attention other than a Rocco, and I still prefer the look of the Diego over the Rocco, so why would I do that?!
I do think it is partly also that the leather seems kinda stiff and dull. Think if I put a bit of moisture on it so the leather got a bit shinier and softer, I could really grow to love it. It's just taking a chance because once I take the tags off, I can't return it, right?!?
Adding to it all is that I also just found a Givenchy Pandora on wicked sale and ordered that too, and they are both kinda edgy bags whereas my style (for work) needs to be more polished. Do I really need two edgy bags...probably not! ARGH!?!?

So confused!